San and all the Havens family. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Brett had such a vivid smile and confidence when I knew him and one of my favorite memories is when I was coaching your son Spencer in baseball, who just had such an amazing funny, kind way about him and he was having trouble with a skill and Brett came out to help him in a way that he smiled and laughed with Spencer which made Spencer so more relaxed ... that support of a big brother was special. I am here for you. Whatever you need.