For me, Bren was a staple of our friend group. It's not common to find someone who squeezes in and fits with your friends perfectly but she did. Whether it was questionable memes or watching youtube ghost videos, I loved sending her junk to watch with us in Discord. Simply put, she was just cool, maybe even "chill af" as the kids say. 

I watched her and one of my best friends fall in love and even begin a life togetherIt makes you doubt a lot of things, to see stuff like this happen to people that simply do not deserve it. It can be hard to understand or cope with. I've lost a friend before in a sudden, tragic way and I have to remind myself that it gets easier with time even though it doesn't feel like it will. We'll always keep a spot open in our gaming chat for her. 

I wish I had something more grandiose or deep, but I don't. It hurts to miss a friend and to lose them so suddenly. I can only imagine what it feels like for family. 

I won't bother anyone reading with more details, we know what made Bren so great. Rest easy and my condolences to your family, Bren. I hope they can find peace in remembering the awesome person you are.

St. John Family. I want to say I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. A dear loved one. The hole that is left in our hearts and lives when we loose a loved one is magnificent. And many wonder if and how will that gaping hole ever be closed? I wanted to share with you that our God Jehovah yearns to bring back many of our loved ones back to life (Job 14:15). He will bring many back to our arms. Acts 24:15 says And I have hope toward God, which hope these men also look forward to, that there is going to be a resurrection. May this promise that will soon be fulfilled give you strength and joy to endure. 

It’s been almost 2 weeks since you’ve been gone. I keep coming across videos and memes that I would’ve sent you immediately because I knew you’d get a laugh. Memories keep flooding my mind from when we were growing up. Like the time I ran a red light on accident because we wanted to go get some shakes from Steak n’shake. Or the time you were annoyed with me because I fell asleep during the saddest part of the Pokémon movie. Flipping each other off as we’d drive away from mom’s house. The way we’d call each other bitch as a term of endearment. I hope you heard me when I said it for the last time.

We fought like sisters do, but we always had each other’s backs. I was excited for you to go on your adventure like the hobbit you were. Starting your new life in a different state, making plans to come visit us or we come visit you. I will always regret not talking on the phone more, but we communicated through messages and memes. Humor was our greatest strength. I’m going to miss your laugh, your advice, and your presence forever. I love you, bitch. 

Brenda was a true friend with an extraordinary soul; she was a kindred spirit, a beacon of compassion, and a shining testament to the transformative power of human connection. We bonded over our shared interest for Full Metal Alchemist, and its emphasis on Law of Equivalent Exchange and “One is All, and All is One”. But our connection went beyond anime - we also shared a passion for music, from the iconic sounds of 80s and 90s pop culture to the modern rock. She had a deep sense of music appreciation that I found impressive. We were also gamers at heart, and I'll never forget the late-night gaming sessions we had, screaming our way through Resident Evil 4 on the GameCube.

But beyond our shared interests, Brenda was a safe haven, and a comforting presence. She had exceptional work ethic and poured her heart and soul into everything she did. Her unique laughter was contagious and authentic, is forever etched in my memory.

To Brenda’s family, I offer my deepest condolences. May the love and support of those around you provide comfort during this unimaginable time. May cherished memories of Brenda bring peace, and may her legacy continue to inspire you in the days ahead.

Brenda, I learned a lot from our shared experiences on this earth. You mattered deeply to me and I owe you a debt of gratitude that can never be fully be repaid. I’m dismantled and heart broken but we both know it’s all going to be all right. Your memory will be a blessing to me, and to all those who loved you. This is not a goodbye, but rather a see you later.

Javier 

I'll always remember you, and all the things we've done together growing up with the family too. You were loved so much, and still will be no matter what. 

I hope one day we'll all meet again. I'll keep moving forward in memory of you, and I'll do the best I can sis. You'll see. Thank you for everything. I love you and I'll miss you so much.

Brenda, 

I will always remember your bubbly laugh and goofy smile. Thank you for being a kind and genuine person, the world is a little less cool now.