Brenda ❤️

I don't even know where to begin, because in moments like this, you were always the one I'd run to.

Oh, Brenda...

I'm so sorry you had to leave us so soon.

Thank you for being there for me, through the hardest moments of my life, through everything. You were more than a friend. You were my American auntie, in every sense of the word.

Truly family.

You will always be a part of my life, of who I am.

I’ll keep speaking to the stars, trusting you’re somewhere listening. Take care of Eric for me… until we find each other again.

I love you so much, and already miss you dearly, B.

I'll always be your sweet princess. ✨🩷

I spent a lot of time with the Adolphson family in 7th and 8th grade as one of Kristen’s close friends. I remember Ms. Brenda’s playful spirit so clearly—she loved using funny voices and teasing the kids in a way that always made everyone laugh. She was so warm and welcoming, and truly made me feel like part of the family.

They even took me on my first trip to Florida. My first visit to Disney was with the Adolphsons, and I’ll never forget the adventure of driving all the way to Key West in a minivan packed with eight people—it was unforgettable in the best way.

During the years Kristen and I were so close, Ms. Brenda felt like a second mother to me, and I’ll always be grateful for the love and kindness that she (and their entire family) showed me.

-Michelle Penland