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Obituary

With heavy but faithful hearts, we share that our beautiful mother, Bette Fetter, passed away.

Mom had a way of loving that reached far beyond her children and grandchildren. Her maternal spirit touched everyone she met. She made everyone feel seen, known, and cherished. Creative, positive, and endlessly kind, she reflected God’s light in the way she loved others so freely.

She knew each of us so deeply, our hearts, our kids, our quirks, and …

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Born

April 11th, 1954
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Passed away

December 4th, 2025
Elgin

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