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Bernard "Bernie" Toomer Jr

Fort Meade, MD
September 20, 1961 - May 1, 2023
Sep 20, 1961 - May 1, 2023
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My brother will always Remember the times me we had in the Navy. Love you my brother RIHP
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My friend, my brother from another mother. Will always Love you and cherish our Naval Memories.Β 
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Man this hit me hard. I don't even know what to say. Found out 5/16 about you and uncle Bernie. Uncle Bernie taught me to drive. There so many memories of u 2 I have and will cherish. Please give my dad and brother Michael hugs from me. This is so overwhelming for me. I love you both and miss yall. I can't stop 😒 crying. R.i.P
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My deepest condolences to the family. I was with Bernie in Bahrain. He was a good friend and a great brother. Always traveling East Square. Sincerely,

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Just got the chance to meet Bernie,  wish to have had a chance to hang out a little longer. Gone too soon ❀️
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I was so sorry to hear about Bernard's passing. He was such a close friend, shipmate, and brother. You will be missed.Β 
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My deepest condolences to my family and all friends that loved him. Β My prayers are that Β you find peace & comfort β€οΈπŸ™πŸ½
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