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Bernard Justy Bender Jr

Penngrove, CA
October 26, 1947 - February 7, 2020
Oct 26, 1947 - Feb 7, 2020
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Bernie .
We miss your entertainment , your funny stories and your honesty .
I wish you had authored a book of all that you went through in your life and also your service in Vietnam .. Your still making us smile when we think of you ..May you shine in heaven as you surely did here on earth...
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I remember Uncle BJ brought the family to Pacifica to celebrate my graduation--it meant a lot to me because he showed that he cared and helped to represent my dad who had recently passed away during that time. He was a cool and compassionate guy that will always have a special place in our hearts. May God bless his sweet soul.
Love the Becerra family.
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When my father and Bj’s mother got together I was nine years old. Bj, Joey and I bonded, and we became an immediate family. We shared our childhoods together, and stayed very close up until young adulthood. I always considered him to be my brother. I’ll miss him terribly, and hold his memory with me always. Love you dear brother, peace be with you. ❤️ Janet
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Bernie was so poor when he as a kid that his mom couldn"t afford a
Halloween costume so his mom dressed him up in what probably was his sisters cloths and sent him out Trick or Treating ,much to his dismay but he did it and everybody said what a cute little girl he was flashing those baby blues and rosy cheeks .He never got over it
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