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Obituary

SF native and resident of Sonoma County, Bernard Justy Bender Jr born October 26, 1947 has passed away at the age of 72 on February 7th, 2020 in the comfort of his home and in the company of his Son Aaron Bender.


In his last moments he was in the care of hospice and surrounded by friends and family. He is survived by his three Children, David Frazer, Aaron and Lori Bender.

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Bernie .
We miss your entertainment , your funny stories and your honesty .
I wish you had authored a book of all th…
Bernie .
We miss your entertainment , your funny stories and your honesty .
I wish you had autho…
Bernie .
We miss your entertainment , your funny stories and…
I remember Uncle BJ brought the family to Pacifica to celebrate my graduation--it meant a lot to me because he showed t…
I remember Uncle BJ brought the family to Pacifica to celebrate my graduation--it meant a lot to me…
I remember Uncle BJ brought the family to Pacifica to celebrate …
When my father and Bj’s mother got together I was nine years old. Bj, Joey and I bonded, and we became an immediate fam…
When my father and Bj’s mother got together I was nine years old. Bj, Joey and I bonded, and we bec…
When my father and Bj’s mother got together I was nine years old…
Bernie was so poor when he as a kid that his mom couldn"t afford a
Halloween costume so his mom dressed him up in what…
Bernie was so poor when he as a kid that his mom couldn"t afford a
Halloween costume so his mom dr…
Bernie was so poor when he as a kid that his mom couldn"t affor…

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Born

October 26th, 1947
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Passed away

February 7th, 2020
Penngrove, CA, USA

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Cause of death

Dementia

Method of disposition

Cremation

Heartland Hospice Services
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Heartland Hospice Services

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