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Ben holds a special place in my heart. During our school days, he was my baby. I would talk to him during his challenges, and he would always come back to me, turning his head at the sound of my voice. I wanted him to know that I would always be there for him. 

When he graduated, not seeing him everyday truly hurt my heart. But my love never faded. Even now, my love will never end.

Until that sweet day,

Nurse Doretta

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My heartfelt condolences to your family.  Ben will always be remembered and cherished.  It was an honor to know him and to have occasionally provided nursing care for him at MHCS.    Praying for you all during this difficult time.

Family Troutman,

                            I am so grateful I got to meet and hang out with Ben. I will never forget the time the bat got into the lake house while we were watching a movie and  Ben was trying to sleep. It was hilarious and I will continue to treasure that memory.  I am sending you all love as you celebrate Ben's life and cherish the gift he was to you all for 29 years. 

Holding you all close in my heart, 

Katie Massey

Dear Troutman Family,

I was deeply saddened to come across the news of your loss. Although we have never met, my heart felt moved to reach out and share my sincere condolences.

In moments like these, words often feel small, but I find comfort in the hope the Bible gives—that soon, in a perfect world, you will be able to hold Ben in your arms again. As it says at Revelation 21:4, “He will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more.”

May that promise bring you a measure of peace and strength during this difficult time.

My deepest sympathies for your loss. May you find joy and comfort in your memories of Ben. ~Bernard Burke
Oh Mary Anne and Tom, I was so sad to learn of Ben's passing, what a sweet boy. I remember all the soccer games he came to when Kelsey and Katie played. You all gave him a wonderful life, know he will be missed by all. Love, the Callahan's, Judy, Tom, Patrick and Katie. XO
Very sorry to hear - my prayers and condolences to your family

Praying for you and your family.

Derrick & Beniquez Palmer

He’s such a beautiful boy, Mary Anne.  I’m so happy that you’ve got these lovely memories of him and that you were both there with him at the end.  His life was very meaningful.  We miss you guys!!!
What a beautiful tribute to your remarkable son!  I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. The world is a better place for the too short time he spent on the earth. All of our love, thoughts and prayers. 
What a beautiful tribute to your son Ben. I felt the love reading about him and his family. My mother also passed on her birthday and I think that’s reserved for very special people. Mary Anne you were a wonderful mother to Ben. Find comfort in that. With sympathy, Jeanne Lewis

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