Facebook post from Dad on May 2, 2020:
"I saved your life"
Many years ago, without going into all the details, I was at Mom and Dad's Kalispell house, and my blood sugar had dipped life threatening low. I lost consciousness and paramedics had to be called to resuscitate me with needed injections.
I was home alone with Dad while Mom had gone to a wedding shower many miles away. I was napping downstairs and unaware that my blood sugar was falling while Dad napped upstairs in his chair. Alzheimer's had fully gripped him.
I vaguely remember somehow making it upstairs to the kitchen barstools in an attempt to get sugar. Then I completely blacked out. Dad awoke and saw me struggling. He came and braced me from falling off the stool. He was incapacitated by Alzheimer's and could do nothing but hold me. He didn't know anything else to do, but hold me.
By the grace of God, Mom felt the need to come home early, and upon finding me called 911. I was literally minutes, not hours, away from dying if my blood sugar wasn't reversed.
I can only imagine Dad's panic as he stood alone and felt me passing away. Maybe the closest feeling was that I felt later as I held his hand in the hospice as his life passed in his last minutes.
Later, when the paramedics left and things settled, Dad went back to his recliner. I heard him repeating, "I saved your life. I saved your life" For a brief moment I thought "no, Dad, you just held me up. It was Mom coming home early and calling 911 that saved me.
But I stopped. In a second I realized he had saved my life. He didn't just save it that day, but everyday he had been my dad, and taught me about life, and being a man, and caring.
With each example he as saving my life.
But, now I know, as other times threatened my life, it isn't just Dad who saved my life. Cindy, my wife has saved my life. She saved it while giving me a reason to live while holding my hand when I was on a ventilator in the hospital room, and saved my life in so many ways, in so many times.
And my children, and my family, and anyone who said a kind word when a kind words was needed. All have saved my life.
I forgot to thank Dad for saving my life. I don't want to error again.
Thank you, Cindy, and Mom, and children and family and all others. Thank you for saving my life each day I live.
Thank you, my Christ. for saving my life eternal.
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