LaValley, Barry Jay (May 22, 1953 – December 13, 2023) died peacefully comforted by his wife Melissa and son, Peter. Diagnosed 15 years ago, Barry lived with his cancer in the same way he lived his life, with curiosity, enquiry and with positive belief he would not let the disease overtake his love of life. He would live on his own terms.

A Calgarian predeceased by this parents, Pete and Gerry, and older brother Peter, Barry is survived by brothers, Gary, Greg, Tim and sister Darlene, innumerable colleagues, friends and the two most important people of his life, beloved wife Melissa and son, Peter.

Barry chose work, career and personal endeavours in the way he saw life, “do and say the right thing”. Mostly indifferent to criticism, he pursued his sports passions as a referee in amateur, major junior and professional hockey. After attending the University of Calgary, he established a career in the investment industry achieving success at a number of national and international firms.

Barry’s foresight as an investment leader and educator led him to become a sought after consultant and speaker to thousands of future retirees, helping secure their financial future. Barry travelled throughout North America, Australia, and Europe, consulting with major organizations, sharing his retirement planning knowledge and ideas. Barry was an early visitor to the growing financial industry in Mainland China.

Ever curiously and aware of the world, Barry found ways to seize the moments in life. From the dressing room of the Edmonton Oiler Stanley Cup winning team, the final round of the PGA Open, climbing the Sydney Harbour bridge with son, Peter, to visiting the Great Wall, Barry found countless adventures because the world was out there and was to be enjoyed.

His sports passion did not end with hockey. A life long golfer, Barry’s happiest times were on the golf course, particularly the Nanaimo Golf Club, with fellow golfers and friends. Nothing gave Barry more joy than spending the day partnered with his true love, Melissa.

Together Barry and Melissa shared their life together fully, proud of their son Peter and surrounded by friends and family.

Barry leaves us, better for having him in our lives while holding on to the memory of a life lived positively with his never-ending smile.

A Celebration of Life took place on Barry’s 70th birthday.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in his name to the Charity of your choosing. Thank you.

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