There’s no way to summarize my love for Andrew, the beauty of his being, and the specialness of our friendship in a few short paragraphs. Andrew and I met as next door neighbors in the Rich Hall dorms at Boston University our freshman year. We couldn’t have asked for a more quintessential introduction to college – everyone on our floor, which we affectionately dubbed Floor Flive, bonded that year, forming the foundation for the rest of our college experience and lifelong friendships. We all had so much fun simply hanging out and cracking up for hours on end, getting to know each other, eating late night food from the dining hall and just being silly together. Andrew and Dan could be found air bending and sumo wrestling in the common area, while Rachel’s and my room became the floor’s communal living room, aka Mermania.
Andrew and I clicked with a special bond that never left us. He was like a brother to me. Soon enough we were rough housing like siblings in the dorms. In the most lighthearted way, we would make fun of each other and he could make me laugh so hard just by being himself. That was a connection I didn’t have with anyone else. I think the purest joys come in the simplest forms but they can be hard to find. Andrew shared that gift with me in the way we would giggle and I will always be so grateful to him for that pure joy and love.
On the other side of that playfulness was a super intelligent, sensitive, compassionate and deeply caring person, artist and friend. Andrew always had a way of pulling someone aside for a thoughtful conversation. I’ve never forgotten the countless talks we shared because they always made me think more profoundly and critically about art, politics, and humanity. They were the types of conversations that would linger in my mind for days as they expanded my way of thinking. Andrew introduced me to a lot of great music and sometimes we would run away to his dorm room to show each other different artists we liked. One time, we watched the Daniel Johnston documentary and then went to see him play in Boston and got matching concert tees.
Five years ago, Andrew came to visit me in Hawaii and I’m so thankful we had that time together. He was so sweet and patient as I drove him around to the different spots I had grown up in. I always hoped I could return the gesture by taking a trip to Medfield with him. He loved snorkeling and exploring Oahu’s beaches and, being the true East Coaster he was, he thought I was absolutely ridiculous for thinking the Pacific waters were too cold to swim in during his January trip. I’m so grateful my family got to know him better during that trip as well. Not surprisingly, they loved him too.
I have so much respect for the beautiful person Andrew was. It was a gift to see the artist in him, always creating in many forms, often seen with his sketchbook in hand. His sculptures are amazing. I’m so proud of him for the video games he launched and the community he built around his passions. I always loved to see what a loving partner he was and how sweetly and highly he spoke of his family. I love you forever, Andrew. I promise I’ll never forget you and I’ll keep our love and laughter and memories going in your honor.
My deepest condolences to the entire Thomas family and to Kayla. Andrew often shared with me how much he loved you all.