Alfred's obituary
Alfred was born January 7, 1942 in Montclair, NJ to Carmine Tomaio and Louise Folli. He graduated from Montclair High School and proudly worked for Reingold Brewery in his earlier years. Alfred married his former wife Lorna Bechtler and together they became the proud parents of three beautiful children, which they spoiled with much love, many toys and wonderful vacations. Al spent much of his time in life working out at the gym, walking at his favorite park in Verona, NJ, and playing his guitar while singing the songs of his favorite singer Hank Williams. Al was a charismatic guy who made friends everywhere he went.
Alfred is survived by his two sons and one daughter; Alfred Tomaio and his wife Lynn Tomaio of Haddonfield NJ, Dominic Tomaio and his wife Sally Tomaio of Far Hills, NJ, Louisa (Lisa) Tomaio and her partner Jennifer Bross of Austin TX; two granddaughters Alexa and Isabell Tomaio of Far Hills, NJ, his former wife Lorna Bechtler of Austin, TX. along with his nephew Carmen (Buddy) Tomaio. He was preceded in death by his parents, Carmine and Louise, and his brother Carmen Tomaio.
Alfred will be missed by many!
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