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Alfred's obituary

Alfred C Tomaio, 77, of Montclair, New Jersey, passed away, Friday, May 17, 2019 in Austin , TX surrounded by his three children. A Mass will be held at 10:00 AM, Saturday, June 22 at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, 94 Pine St, Montclair, NJ 07042. The burial will follow soon after at Immaculate Conception Cemetery, 712 Grove St in Upper Montclair, NJ, 07043. Followed by a gathering at Verona Park, Bloomfield Ave & Lakeside Avenue, Verona, NJ 07044 from 12-4PM to celebrate Alfred's life. Friends and family are welcome to join in any or all of the days events.

Alfred was born January 7, 1942 in Montclair, NJ to Carmine Tomaio and Louise Folli. He graduated from Montclair High School and proudly worked for Reingold Brewery in his earlier years. Alfred married his former wife Lorna Bechtler and together they became the proud parents of three beautiful children, which they spoiled with much love, many toys and wonderful vacations. Al spent much of his time in life working out at the gym, walking at his favorite park in Verona, NJ, and playing his guitar while singing the songs of his favorite singer Hank Williams. Al was a charismatic guy who made friends everywhere he went.

Alfred is survived by his two sons and one daughter; Alfred Tomaio and his wife Lynn Tomaio of Haddonfield NJ, Dominic Tomaio and his wife Sally Tomaio of Far Hills, NJ, Louisa (Lisa) Tomaio and her partner Jennifer Bross of Austin TX; two granddaughters Alexa and Isabell Tomaio of Far Hills, NJ, his former wife Lorna Bechtler of Austin, TX. along with his nephew Carmen (Buddy) Tomaio. He was preceded in death by his parents, Carmine and Louise, and his brother Carmen Tomaio.

Alfred will be missed by many!

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