I was going through an old box of memorabilia today and came across a letter from Al that he wrote to me when I graduated from Alwood after 8 months of treatment (2 months in, left and returned for 6). In trying to track him down to say thank you, I found this obituary. So very sorry to hear about the years after I knew him and so very sad that he is no longer with us. Al very likely saved my life and the life of my then unborn son by agreeing to allow me to return for addiction treatment. 35 years later, I am the mother of 2 men, a college professor and a happy, productive person. Al will be remembered as firm but fair, kind and brutally honest. My regards to his family and friends. Rest easy, Al.
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Om Creator. Why did Noone call us at all! He said someone would. We are Tammie ans Kenny g Swartz.
I met uncle AL as we called him on a dark walk home from food land to the our home on adeline at the time. We saw a man digging in the garbage, my husband and I have big hearts 💕 and went to this man, and asked when he ate last he said week ago. We took uncle all to the grocery store and bought him alot of food then took a cab to his home at the time and dropped him off. I am the one who purchase his one way ticket to Ottawa. I was the one who called him each day at the inn of good Sheppard. Unclear you changed my life. I will miss our long talks and cries.
If the son or daughter could call me that would be great . I xant write the relationship anymore. It's so hard. We had a special relationship. I'm now in Manotlin island.
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In memory of you Alan...
..it has been a long journey with many trials and turmoils but also good things along the way.
Today I choose to remember your compassion and empathy for those less fortunate, although often times your undoing, a worthy attribute nonetheless. The talented musician you were and good memories of sharing in that with you. The father and grandfather you were. Your beautiful granddaughter and amazing children who have become strong, independent, confident loving adults, whom I know you loved dearly and were so very proud of. And a brother to three siblings. We enjoyed many special occasions together.
You were a son, a stepson, a brother, a father, a grandfather, an uncle, an in-law and a friend to many. You were and are a child of God and He loves his children unconditionally. And you were loved Alan. You are loved. Rest in peace big brother. Your earthly journey is over. You are home. 🙏❤
Forever in our memories...Love Sharon
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Steve,
So sad to learn of your father's passing. He was indeed a rugged individualist with his own Northstar who I'm sure will be a lasting and positive memory for you! We're so pleased that you're still a big part of Marc's life. Suzanne joins me in sending you our sincere condolences.
Sandy and Suzanne Mayer
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Steve, This is the best obituary and a tribute to your Dad. It explains why you are such a good friend to Marc. I am proud to say that I know you. Parents are always missed, no matter what. Thank you for your writing.
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Stephen, We are friends of your uncle Brian's, we actually live a couple of blocks away from each other. He has been a very dear friend of ours for many years. After reading this beautiful obituary, and wiping the tears from my eyes, I felt compelled to send you and your family our condolences. Your Father's life was filled with both triump and tradgedy....and how elequently you have told the story of his journey! We are so sorry for the loss you have all experienced.
Francine and David
We will be making a donation to a local addiction center in Kingston, in your Father's name.
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I was sad to hear of the passing of our cousin Alan. Thank you for sharing his story. It’s so evident that he had a good heart, despite all of his struggles. Our deepest condolences go out to all Alan’s loved ones, family and friends. May God bless his soul and bring all of you comfort, strength and peace during your time of loss.
Warmly,
France and Stu Beare
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So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing, Steve and Christine. The obituary was so well written that we read it twice!
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A beautiful, sad (yet hopeful) and honest tribute to your Father. He sounds like a proper character I would have liked to have met. Steve, my condolences to you and your family.
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