My deepest condolences to your whole family. Even though it has been many years since I have been with you, the Whitehead family holds a very special place in my heart. I know that Abe will remain in your hearts and that his stories will be told and retold. May we all continue his work of bringing kindness to others that is so evident in all of the remembrances here. 

With love and sorrow,

Jen

I’m so sorry Susan. Our thoughts are with you and your family. 

Julian Resasco and family 

I'm so sorry, Susan.  What a shock!

I only met Abe once, at the FSD meeting just as COVID was emerging. I was struck by how mellow he seemed and yet how much he was involved in -- projects and volunteer work of all kinds -- and how good a dad he was being. I grieve for your family.

An interesting hat and a toothpick in the corner of his mouth. Nice friendly smile, with a touch of knowingness, perhaps bemusement. He immediately made me feel as if we had been and would be friends forever. We met in a men’s group inspired by our partners group, about 2016 in Ithaca, and I had my son Linden, being a househusband in need of friends. Especially some who liked thinking about politics, with a compassion for others. He was wise, seeing so much of the world and its injustices so clearly, yet facing it with a wry smile. We hit it off as he made it so easy to have a friendly, deep conversation. This is a rare gift. Like so many guy friends, we didn’t keep in touch until we remet years later in Blacksburg, when my (then) wife befriended his wife, Susan. I was so excited.

Abe was the same as ever: friendly, warm, caring for his boys, taking care of the house with amazing projects. Like remodeling the house. Or the day I walked into a casino for him and the boys to play in while Susan was out of town. The boys could play poker so well I knew they spent a lot of time with their dad, having fun. What a gift. So much energy behind that laid back persona. Such talent. When we were together it would be a great time, but we too rarely met. I will treasure those memories and miss my friend. My condolences to those of you who had him in your lives everyday. Ron 

Dearest Susan, 

Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of Abe. My heart is broken for you all. 

Thinking of you and always here if there is anything I can do for you. 

Love and light

Finola xx 

Dear Susan and family, 

I only met Abe less than a handful of times, but he left a lasting impression. The first time we met, he immediately found commonalities between us and put on an amazing music playlist. I felt comfortable in your home and like I could definitely see myself learning and growing here. I share my deepest condolences with you all.