On Monday, November 18, 2024, our beloved Abby left us. Abby was a cherished daughter, a devoted mother to two remarkable and resilient children, a sister to four loving brothers, and an aunt to sixteen nieces and nephews.

Abby Virginia Vigil was born on June 5, 1982, in Grand Junction, Colorado, on a warm and sunny day to her loving mother, Theresa "Jeannie" McDonnell Vigil Lange, and her father, Jeffery Vigil. She grew up with her brothers Felipe, Adam, Matt, and Zach Vigil. Abby came from two large families and enjoyed strong relationships with many of her cousins. The family moved often throughout her childhood, living in Grand Junction and Denver, Colorado, as well as Spring, Texas. Whether because of her large family, their frequent moves, or something else entirely, Abby had a remarkable ability to make friends wherever she went. She was known as a loyal and loving friend and neighbor to many.

As the only daughter in her family, Abby shared a particularly close bond with her mother, Jeannie. It was not uncommon to find the two of them salsa dancing in the living room or snuggled up together, watching sappy movies and enjoying Little Debbie cakes. Despite her tomboy nature, Abby always found joy in dressing up. Even as a child, she loved having her hair curled and her nails painted.

After high school, Abby enlisted in the United States Army, a chapter of her life filled with pride and honor. In July 2000, she left for basic training in North Carolina. Upon completing boot camp, she went on to advanced individual training at Fort Eustis, Virginia, where she trained in food service. During this time, she was awarded an Army Achievement Medal. Abby’s commitment to preparing meals for others remained a hallmark of her life.

She was honorably discharged from the Army in 2001 and returned to Grand Junction to be with her family. Abby formed an especially close bond with her nieces and continued to be an adoring and loving aunt as her family grew. She was often affectionately called "Uncle Abby,” a title she carried with pride.

In July 2008, Abby became a mother with the birth of her daughter, Elizabeth Rose Roussin. Two years later, in February 2010, she welcomed her son, Joseph Cash Lee Roussin. In her sobriety, Abby was a loving and devoted mother.

A few years later, Abby returned to school at Colorado Mesa University on a Presidential Scholarship. She excelled academically while juggling a full course load as a single mom of two, demonstrating remarkable organization and determination. In 2015, Abby graduated with both an Associate of Arts Degree and an Associate of Applied Science Degree, both with High Distinction. Two years later, she completed her Bachelor's Degree in Construction Management, graduating at the top of her class. Abby’s achievements were a testament to her incredible strength and perseverance.

Abby had a unique talent for finding joy in the little things, especially crafting. She was known for her love of sparkly things, which seemed to reflect her own radiant spirit. Whether it was jewelry, bold nail polish, or colorful eyeshadow, glitter was always part of her signature look. Abby was also a formidable cook, known for her delicious casseroles, with Western Casserole being a particular favorite. Everything she created was made with thoughtfulness and love. Abby’s life was filled with loud music, home-cooked meals, and vibrant, colorful people.

It would be impossible to describe Abby as quiet or reserved. She was famous for her loud, contagious laughter. It was common to hear her belting out her favorite songs in the middle of a grocery store aisle or turning a car ride into a passionate session of carpool karaoke. Her "loud and proud" personality brought warmth and joy to everyone around her.

It would also be a disservice not to mention Abby's irreverent humor. She often proclaimed that any time and any place was a good time to "let it rip." Even in moments of grief, Abby was the first to crack a joke—and maybe throw in a colorful word or two. She would want us to do the same for her. Even in her struggles, Abby found reasons to laugh. She had a rare ability to make others feel seen, whether it was a grocery store clerk, a fellow student, or a stranger passing by.

Abby had a light that was impossible to describe. Her generosity and love extended to unconditional lengths. The pain she experienced at the end of her life will not diminish the joy and vibrancy she brought to those around her. We find comfort knowing she is now reunited with her father, Jeffery, whom she missed dearly. Her spirit and memory will be treasured and profoundly missed. May you finally be at peace, Abby. We love you to the moon and back.

A Celebration of Life will be announced by the family in the Summer of 2025.

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