Pulling the plug

I had to make decision to have my husband sedated because he was fightIng the doctors over wanting the tube taken out from his throat. They did not, and then, once he went under, they had him sedated for 4 days, they could not get him to wake up! The last time I go to communicate with my husband was to see him crying and pleading Ng with me to not let him be sefat d and to take tube out. He n ver woke back up. My husband was killed whil being a passenger in the car( his best and childhood freind of 35 years!) In accident on fwy, caused by construction workers neglegence, and it's was sudden. I was at hospital each day to be with him m, and had been told he was improving. But, on the last day h let bed, I went home for a few minutes to provide co u our new puppy for m foggy sitter, and got a call from hospital telling m to rush back to hospital, because h had taken a tu n for the worst. I had not familiar ly to contact me be with me, and his family didn't want to be there for him. I had his best freind go with me. The freind that was driving the car that was in accident. He only had a fe broken bones and survived. We didn't get back to the hospital in time!! My husband died alone.! In a cold hospital room! I walked into the room and he was dead! I'm lost now!! We grew up together and for 37 years of my life was with him! James R. Mccann He was only 54 years old. And he s family have now caused me much emotional damage and left me on my own, and no longer are talking! We had disagreement over funeral arrangements, and the fact that they began to throw my husband's stuff in trash before he was even critical! I hav lost everything and everyone in my life all in one week! I really need help! I hope anyways!!

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I had to make decision to have my husband sedated because he was fightIng the doctors over wanting the tube taken out from his throat. They did not, and then, once he went under, they had him sedated for 4 days, they could not get him to wake up! The last time I go to communicate with my husband was to see him crying and pleading Ng with me to not let him be sefat d and to take tube out. He n ver woke back up. My husband was killed whil being a passenger in the car( his best and childhood freind of 35 years!) In accident on fwy, caused by construction workers neglegence, and it's was sudden. I was at hospital each day to be with him m, and had been told he was improving. But, on the last day h let bed, I went home for a few minutes to provide co u our new puppy for m foggy sitter, and got a call from hospital telling m to rush back to hospital, because h had taken a tu n for the worst. I had not familiar ly to contact me be with me, and his family didn't want to be there for him. I had his best freind go with me. The freind that was driving the car that was in accident. He only had a fe broken bones and survived. We didn't get back to the hospital in time!! My husband died alone.! In a cold hospital room! I walked into the room and he was dead! I'm lost now!! We grew up together and for 37 years of my life was with him! James R. Mccann He was only 54 years old. And he s family have now caused me much emotional damage and left me on my own, and no longer are talking! We had disagreement over funeral arrangements, and the fact that they began to throw my husband's stuff in trash before he was even critical! I hav lost everything and everyone in my life all in one week! I really need help! I hope anyways!!

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