Dealing with depression after the loss of my mom

Hello ! First thing I am sorry deeply for your loss . Them very words I asked myself and I am still asking that and you wanting to talk about it and recognizing this new you that you don't even no. My story is 7 months ago I lost my daughter in a car wreck that fatally killed her instantly she was 25 years old she was one semester away from graduating from MSU for criminology she wanted to be a police officer she always wanted to serve and protect her community she was an amazing woman and I was so very grateful to have her the 25 years that I did there's a lot of unanswered questions we ask ourselves why does this happen in the manner that it happens and accepting is a big piece of of them not being no longer with us and physical form I am still going through it and I kept searching for what can I do to help myself because I felt in your shoes and in your spot so she was killed because her cousin was driving and drinking so I reached out to Madd which is mother's against drinking and driving and I found that support group who have are dealing with the loss of a child due to drinking because every time I spoke to somebody about something you know they said oh just let her be in peace you know you got to let her go and that's probably the most wrong thing that a human could tell another human when it comes to losing a big part of your life that will never be replaced just know that time that we will never forget them we will never not cry or shed a tear because the heart is such a beautiful thing is to love someone and the way that you love them is genuine don't cost nothing and what I can say to you is I lost my mother when I was 26 years old I went through it I felt every pain that you could possibly feel so losing my daughter of course it's a different kind of loss with a child but the pain is always there but what I started doing is doing things in memory of her because I'm not ready to let go so everything is about her you know positive things and it's kind of like doing the chapters that she didn't get to do so I turn the pages for her and I know there will be that final chapter that I would not want to have an ending to but I know she's in peace and I know she's safe and I will see her again and eternal life I could go on with so many stories that are beautiful that come along with this just know that these are all true and normal feelings that you need someone to talk to you while I don't know you personally what I can say is I'm always willing to help a person that's what I've been doing for all my life for work for my family and if there's any way that I can help in this process and give back I will do that I hope that this shines some kind of light in your direction and I wish all the best to you keep strong

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Hello ! First thing I am sorry deeply for your loss . Them very words I asked myself and I am still asking that and you wanting to talk about it and recognizing this new you that you don't even no. My story is 7 months ago I lost my daughter in a car wreck that fatally killed her instantly she was 25 years old she was one semester away from graduating from MSU for criminology she wanted to be a police officer she always wanted to serve and protect her community she was an amazing woman and I was so very grateful to have her the 25 years that I did there's a lot of unanswered questions we ask ourselves why does this happen in the manner that it happens and accepting is a big piece of of them not being no longer with us and physical form I am still going through it and I kept searching for what can I do to help myself because I felt in your shoes and in your spot so she was killed because her cousin was driving and drinking so I reached out to Madd which is mother's against drinking and driving and I found that support group who have are dealing with the loss of a child due to drinking because every time I spoke to somebody about something you know they said oh just let her be in peace you know you got to let her go and that's probably the most wrong thing that a human could tell another human when it comes to losing a big part of your life that will never be replaced just know that time that we will never forget them we will never not cry or shed a tear because the heart is such a beautiful thing is to love someone and the way that you love them is genuine don't cost nothing and what I can say to you is I lost my mother when I was 26 years old I went through it I felt every pain that you could possibly feel so losing my daughter of course it's a different kind of loss with a child but the pain is always there but what I started doing is doing things in memory of her because I'm not ready to let go so everything is about her you know positive things and it's kind of like doing the chapters that she didn't get to do so I turn the pages for her and I know there will be that final chapter that I would not want to have an ending to but I know she's in peace and I know she's safe and I will see her again and eternal life I could go on with so many stories that are beautiful that come along with this just know that these are all true and normal feelings that you need someone to talk to you while I don't know you personally what I can say is I'm always willing to help a person that's what I've been doing for all my life for work for my family and if there's any way that I can help in this process and give back I will do that I hope that this shines some kind of light in your direction and I wish all the best to you keep strong

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