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My sincerest condolences to Karen, and Bob's parents Bob and Rosemarie.  It seems not that long ago we met virtually so I could present Bob his retirement award for his distinguished career in service to our Nation.   For all those who knew Bob, we have lost a great friend.  

I met Bob when we were both working for the National Guard Bureau in DC.   As fellow aviators, and because Bob was Bob, we got along magnificently.   We shared many stories and experiences, and it was through these conversations I learned the depth of Bob's love for Country and public service.  Bob and I always talked about cars and flying, and he kept me up to date on his many projects, and how much he loved to go home to Nevada.  

I will miss Bob's smile, his boundless enthusiasm, and his selfless service.  I am so thankful our paths crossed as often as they did, for every time I came away smiling.   Besides the memories with him,  Bob left all of us the gift of a smile from deep within anytime we think of him.         

My condolences to Robert's family. I first met Robert when [ describe how you know each other ] and we would often [ include common activities together ].
Bob was a dear friend and mentor. What I learned about ties and shoes was invaluable. After I left Team Reid, we had many enjoyable lunches.
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I was devastated when I heard the news of Bob's passing.  He was a dear and cherished friend and I will miss him dearly.  I'm sincerely sorry for your loss but hope you take comfort in the fact that Bob lived a full and meaningful life. 
My sincere condolences. Bob and I were good friends from our time in the NVARNG and DC. I will miss him

Sending my sympathy, love and support. ❤️

Karen, so glad you and Bob found each other. So many memories to hold on to. Take good care. Warm hugs, Annie
Karen,

You have our sympathy on the loss of your husband, Bob and our dear friend. We hope you can find some comfort knowing how Bob touched so many of us in his National Guard family. He will never be forgotten.

General (Retired) Frank and Pat Grass
We are very sorry for your loss and know that "Our Father in Heaven" is with us always.
Karen, we’re still in shock.  Lynnette and I were looking forward to our next get together with you and Bob to drink a ‘little wine.’   We’ll remember those great ‘drop ins’ in Galena and in Manassas forever.  

Karen, Our thoughts and prayers are with you!

Dorene and Andy Goida

Karen,

We are so saddened to hear of Bob’s passing. What a terrible shock. We don’t know what to say that could possibly comfort you, except when you’re back home in CT we’ll all be there for you.

Bob & Chris Warner

So sorry for your loss. So very tragic. 

Keeping you and your Family in my thoughts and prayers 💖💖

Karen, 

thinking of you during this tough time. Such fond memories sitting in your cozy kitchen in CT celebrating a New Year’s Eve with you and Bob.  My heart goes out to you and your families.

Amy

Karen - I’m so sorry, friend. Rooting for you and yours and hoping fond memories of a beautiful life lived give you comfort and help lift your spirits. 
I was lucky enough to have dinner with Bob last month for the LuLius Innovation Board meeting in Las Vegas. There was a group of us, but I was smart enough to know, the best seat in the house was right next to him, so I grabbed it. Now, if you know Bob, you know there are a couple of reasons for this. First, no one and I mean NO ONE had better stories than Bob. Second, the man knew and loved his wine, so I would always order what he got. Third, and maybe most importantly, I had to find out what was making him look so relaxed!

"Shorts?!? What have you been getting into Bob?". "What?" he said with that half cocked smile that always said way more than he let on. No matter where I've seen Bob, he always looked like he was just stopping by before meeting someone very important. From his quaffed white hair and slacks to his bracelet de jour, Bob was always put together. So, to see him in shorts with a button down short sleeved shirt was quite a new site! He gave me a big hug , then slipped away and worked the room. It was always fun to watch him in his element.

We sat down to dinner, he ordered his wine, I followed suit and we were off to the Story races. It started with a quick bit about an amazing BBQ steak and asparagus dinner he had made and enjoyed in the backyard the night before. He said the evening was so perfect he fell asleep on the lounger outside and swore it had nothing to do with the amazing whisky he enjoyed for dessert! He talked about how he and Karen were trying to eat healthier and it suited him. We moved on to quarantine. He didn't mind it, he and Karen had a chance to get back to basics and he liked the quiet time. We talked about an epic trip he had taken with his best friend to drive his Harleys from D.C. to Nevada. He giggled that Karen gave him a hard pass on the trip, and his BFF was the only other person he trusted with his ride. After a few pics of all his toys, and a story or two about Hawaii, he explained that he and Karen would be moving back north.

"I want Grass! Karen want's the damn Rocks, so we're doing rocks in the backyard" he said. Bob spent much of the evening telling me about the property they had bought in South Reno. He was getting a fat garage to work on his classic car and for all his toys. He was building a spot that was "Just Bobs". Karen would be picking and planning any and everything she wanted but "Bobs spot" was just his, and he had plans. The conversation was less about the two plus acres and more about he and Karens journey to get there. Bob seemed to be done with the hub bubbery of D.C. and was ready for the quiet life in Northern Nevada, where it all started.

The night was winding down and he asked me how I was doing after my sisters passing last year to cancer. He asked about her age, "she was 47" I explained. "47?! Shit, that's too young! At my age, ya ok, I mean look at all the things I've seen and done AND bought!" we giggled "I've been all over the world and now I'm building a house! 64? Ya, you've been there and done that, but 47, that not enough time" he said. We ended the night with a delish cheese cake, a sweet hug and goodby.

Looking back I think I did get the answer I was looking for. He looked how he felt. He was happy, relaxed, content, and thankful for a slower pace. It wasn't complicated, it was good food and wine, tinkering on his hot rod, and most importantly, Karen.

I'll miss you Bob,
Melissa
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