Words can't describe the sorrow in our hearts at this time, but Auntie Maxine, in her vivaciousness, would want us to move away from the sadness (eventually) and remember all the fun times, the love we shared and would want us to continue to love one another with joy, laughter and benevolence.
My beautiful God Mother, made sure I had a gorgeous bangle ceremony with bangles and sarees she and Uncle Peter brought back from India for me at my wedding. She led the Uddon Guelem (I think that's what it was called), (Goan Blessing Song), with uncle Peter supporting before every meal we shared together during all precious celebrations as well as simple meals we had together in Toronto (at my parent's home), and in Edmonton and in Richmond.
She had the ability to bring together so many people together with music and her laugh and smile was so infectious. My aunty Maxine was fearless and strong willed, yet always kind and loving. She is a great example for all members of our family on how to be the best of yourself and how to encourage the best in others.
Her goal for everyone around her was for all to flourish. She taught us so many things and we were so lucky to know and love her. Aunty Maxine taught us all how to live, enjoy life, grab onto opportunities and take the adventurous path if it presented itself. She taught us to live vivaciously and with faith.
She loved her family, Uncle Peter, John, Anna, Jasmeen, Dan, Jacob, Jessie, Iris, Tom and Philu (my parents), her sisters and all the rest of us. She has left a permanent mark on all our hearts and will always be remembered. Love you auntie Maxine.