Was reading thru all these heartfelt messages paying loving tribute to John and I'm glad I did as it served to get me all caught up on who he became and the life he led after high school days when I knew him.
If you attended North Shore during the years John was there or you had a class with him you totally knew who he was because he stood out as a true leader not only academically but also thru his proactive involvement with the community, the school and his class.
Oftentimes these types can come off somewhat buttoned up and arrogant but not John in fact he was just the opposite as he was as humble and personable and approachable as a person can get, with a nice easy vibe about him on top of it.
I caught up with John here and there over the many years, mostly at reunions, and even a couple of times more recently.....same sweet man....same easy vibe...and funny.
Seeing from several of the pics and comments...unless I'm reading it wrong....that at some point he evolved into something of a Deadhead leaning into a more earthy crunchy lifestyle is one of the best things I ever read 🤙🏼
Heart of love and healing vibes going out to the immediate families and to every one of you beautiful people who were close to the man.
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I am so sorry to hear of John’s passing. My sincerest condolences to Mona and their daughters, and his mother, sister, and brother.
I met John in high school and I considered him a good friend. Even then, our class knew that John was destined to accomplish great things. He was very successful in his academic career, and he clearly continued his success beyond in his legal career and humanitarian work.
We did not keep in touch after high school, and I only saw him again at our various high school reunions. On one occasion, I ran into John unexpectedly in the waiting room of an outpatient surgical center and was able to meet Mona briefly at that time. I remember thinking that John may have finally met his “person.” Little did I know that he not only met his “person,” but what a match! I can clearly see from Mona’s writings and the memories shared that he met his perfect match.
John was blessed with a loving family that he was born into, and was blessed again with a loving family that he married into. He clearly led a very fulfilling and loving life. Even though his life was cut short, one can’t ask for more for such a special person.
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John was a great big man full of love and kindness. His heart and mind were wide open. I hear his laugh and remember his twinkling eyes, which showed a blend of his mischievous, political, and loving objectives. My heart breaks for his mom, and for Mona, Sara, and Ana because John is no longer physically here for them and left so early. I lost my biological brother 36 years ago and now another brother has departed far too early. Thank you dear people for remembering John with such love and spirit. Thank you Mona for taking such good care of our friend.
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In a time when everyone seems to look out only for themselves, John was the exact opposite. He lived his life caring for others. His warmth and good nature were always uplifting, and helped put our troubles in perspective whenever we got together. I was fortunate to meet John at The Spirit of the Suwanee Music Park, thanks to our good friend Dave Olson. Aside from his family and social justice, he loved music of all types, and we were able to share many great tunes at Suwanee. I feel fortunate to have spent that time with him, and will miss that big smile and even bigger hug.
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1998, Key West, FL, USA
Dear Mona, I can see why you were John's beloved number one for all these years. This week, in the midst of your own grief, your graciousness has shown through in the comments you've posted comforting others. John, like you, was gifted at truly seeing the person in front of him and fully meeting them in that sweet moment.
I was lucky to meet John Pauly (I always liked using both his names - he was such a big soul that just one name was not enough) when we were law clerks in federal court and our bosses were friends. Sure, he was super smart, but what set him apart from most humans was his great capacity for joy in any moment.
We had fun in Key West at the ACLU's annual civil rights attorneys' conference, and we were both in The Herd as fans of Donna the Buffalo. I am pretty sure I saw him hula hooping with joy when the band played on Virginia Key years ago - I might have just conjured that up but it is the image I'll keep as I miss him now.
Big blessings and peace to you and your daughters.
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I was a public defender with John for 8 years in Palm Beach County, and he was one of my favorites. What a wonderful written tribute to him. His zen and presence were an oasis in the desert of an extremely stressful and hectic work environment. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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So sorry for your loss. I remember John when he would come up to Dreyfoos as a kind, quiet dad. Hopefully your memories will help you during this difficult time.
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I am so sad to hear the news of John passing. I was his fifth grade teacher at First Baptist Day School in West Palm Beach. I know teachers are not supposed to have “a Pet student” but John was special and I always knew to would go on to greatness and do good in this world.
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