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Personal note from Team Gabe

We celebrated Gabe in the most amazing way in Oakland on June 24th. It was truly an incredible night made possible by a bunch of hard working, dedicated volunteers, a long list of donors who financially backed the efforts, and about a hundred and fifty guests who all gathered to celebrate the life of our dear Gabriel Smith Mott. It was surely a night he would have been proud of and one that he one hundred percent inspired. Thank you Gabe!!

If you were able to join us, we're gathering your photos and videos so please email those to Max. We hope you have a bunch and if you do, let Max know and he'll send you a dropbox folder invite.

The first Saturday of each month, we host our Oakland Feed. Please sign up and join us: https://maximizevideo.com/vol…

Thank you so much!

Love,

Team Gabe

Updates

Update from Jan. 9, 2024

Happy New Year cute people!

Hope you all are well and that 2024 is off to a great start.

This Friday (January 12th, 2024) marks the one year anniversary of Gabe’s passing.

His parents reached out hoping folks could gather on Zoom to remember Gabe, share memories, reconnect, and extend blessings.

Here are the details from Rebekah:

We will be meeting at 9am HST/ 11am PST/ 2pm EST/ 8pm Netherlands time

We will begin with a beautiful prayer led by Dominique (one of Gabe's spiritual mentors), followed by sharing reflections, memories and love for Gabe.

We hope to see you there.

Anniversary of Gabe Mott’s Passing

Time: Jan 12, 2024 11:00 AM Pacific Time (US and Canada)

Join Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/808…

Meeting ID: 808 344 7187

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Love,

Max Fancher

Update from June 21, 2023

Dearest Friends,

It’s finally here. This Saturday is Gabe’s Celebration at Omni Commons in Oakland.

If you can’t make it, you will be missed and we completely understand. For those of you able to attend, here is a little more information that may help you get ready.

1. Exciting News: Gabe's Family is Coming!
Gabe's amazing parents are coming from Arizona and his Uncle Bill is flying out from New York to be with us and celebrate Gabe. We can't wait for you to meet them.

2. Timing - Arrive at 6:30 Starts at 7
We’re asking people to arrive between 6:30 and 7 so we can get the show started at 7. Please build in extra time to find a parking spot.

3. What to Bring
Under Rebekah’s leadership, we’re building a gorgeous Gabe Altar and if you felt like bringing a flower or two, you can add it to the altar and help us build the magic. Or, print out a photo or something that reminds you of Gabe to add to the Altar. Even a neighborhood flower you grab on the way is just fine.

4. What to Wear
This is an "anything goes" dress code. Be comfortable, dress up, dress down, wear something colorful, Gabe-inspired or not, mostly we just want you feeling good. We expect there to be a full spectrum and you really can’t go wrong… just be happy and love what you’re wearing.

5. Parking
There is only street parking so you’ll want to build in some time to find a spot. There is a Peets’ coffee and Walgreens nearby that have a lot you can try. Oakland (like many post-pandemic cities) has seen an uptick in “smash and grab” car break-ins. Please, Please, Please, don’t leave anything of value in your car and be sure to not leave anything interesting in view from the outside of your cars to avoid broken windows.

6. Food Truck from 8:30-11pm
We will have a food truck parked just outside from 8:30-11pm. Bay Area Munchiez will offer a great option for you to buy food just outside the venue… And then you can bring it inside. They will also have vegan and gluten free options. Also, Omni Commons is in the Temescal area of Oakland and there are great restaurants nearby so come early and eat there and then come over to Omni Commons at 6:30.

7. Drinks / Bar
Beer, wine, yummy cocktails and non-alcohol options as well. Bar opens at 7 and it’s an open bar with the amazing Penny Lane pouring drinks.

8. What to Expect
Arrive at 6:30. Art show and mingling from 7-8. We’ll give folks a chance to talk about Gabe from 8-9. Food truck arrives at 8:30. We have a special surprise from 9-9:45. And then after that, DJ OsEye will be spinning music for us to dance it out. Lastly, Gabe’s celebration will end at midnight.

9. Kid Friendly? Hell yes.
Oh, yes it is. Definitely kid friendly and we all knew what an amazing uncle Gabe was to our kiddos. We see this as an opportunity to show our kids how we do death in our community so if you think your kids are old enough, please bring them. You’ll just have to judge whether an event like this would be interesting to them or not. We can’t promise it’s something young kids would enjoy but teens for sure should join us.

10. Donate, Invite & RSVP - www.gabemott.art
I know I may sound like a broken record here but we’re falling short of our gofundme goal. If you’ve been waiting to donate, this is a perfect time! We also would love it if you posted, on your social media channels and give Gabe’s Celebration a little digital love. ;-)

Thanks so much all!

Love,

Team Gabe

Update from June 14, 2023

Dear Friends,

The organizers of Gabe's Celebration are getting so excited to have you see what we're putting together. We REALLY hope you'll do whatever you can to get to Oakland between 6:30 and 7:00pm on 6/24 so we can all be together. This night will not disappoint but it all starts with you being there.

Remember to RSVP and Donate here: www.gabemott.art

Can't wait to see you!

Love,
Team Gabe

Update from June 7, 2023

Hi Friends!

We're just over TWO WEEKS until we gather for Gabe's Celebration of Life in Oakland on Saturday, June 24th and we can't wait to see you. The event starts right at 7pm and we're asking that everyone arrive just before then so we can get started... together.

If you haven't yet, please RSVP and donate to help his friends cover the costs of the venue, staff, drinks, entertainment, etc. etc. We're coming up short of our goals so we're hoping there will be a wave of last minute donors . Is that you? :-)

This is the evite to RSVP: http://evite.me/kuGJ3R3DX8

This is the GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/ga…

This page has all the links: https://www.gabemott.art/

Thank you so much!!

- Team Gabe

Update from March 6, 2023

Hi there!

We wanted to make sure you received the invitations to join us in celebrating Gabe in Maui on April 30th and in Oakland on June 24th. We'd love it if you can RSVP so we can plan accordingly and because we REALLY want you to come!

As we're crowdfunding these two parties, anything you can donate toward them would mean a lot to us and allow us to lock down the various elements that will make the party amazing.

RSVP and/or Donate by visiting this NEW landing page:

https://www.gabemott.art/

Thank you so much!

Team Gabe

Obituary

A bright light went out in the world. He left in peace, with a smile on his face and a legacy rich in art, service, & love…although for those of us in relationship with him, it’s hard to imagine that it ends here.

Gabriel Mott was intimate, he showed up for the tough conversations, & for many of us, he was one of the safest relationships we’ve ever known. He was beautiful, magical, uniquely & …

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Here is Gabe loading up meals to deliver to his unhoused neighbors in Oakland. (Oakland, CA, USA, 2022)

Here is Gabe loading up meals to deliver to his unhoused neighbors in Oakland.

Timeline

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Born

May 2nd, 1972
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Graduated from high school

1990
Roosevelt High School, Northeast 66th Street, Seattle, WA
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Graduated from college

1994
UC Berkeley, Berkeley, CA

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Method of disposition

Cremation

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