Thinking and praying for you this morning , Japhet . They’re at Cherie and Toms visiting with friends and family . Becky’s service was beautiful yesterday- I watched the live stream late last night after a small but wonderful 11th birthday party for AnnaSophia . As I watched I was reminded of my favorite memory of a great conversation we had while Becky was waiting in the airport in Portland for her plane to Chicago. We talked about gypsys! A fun time ! I’m sooo glad she called . Thank you for your family’s love to mine …. It’s been a tough few years . I get teary just reflecting! But much to be thankful for - and as I so often pray - Come quickly Lord! Love and many hugs to you and the boys and your precious new daughter …. Carol A. Cherie’s mom. 🥰
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Japhet, I’m so very sorry for your loss 😞 and I pray that God will give you and your children comfort as you continue life in this world. Come soon Lord Jesus
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Thank you for sharing the beautiful Celebration of Life service. My last conversation with Becky was at a One Place church service. I treasure that last conversation and look forward to the day when we can chat in heaven where there are no more last conversations. She showed us all how to live a better life and our memories of her will continue to influence how we interact with others and how we spend our days.
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Thank you for making the service available to us virtually. It was an honor and a rich blessing to attend. We are among those who knew Becky “only for a moment,” yet have been inspired by her life. Thank you, Lord, for the gift of Becky. Peace of Christ be with you - Japhet, Joshua, Gretchen and Jonah - and Becky’s father. Our hearts are with you.
Mark & Lynne Ruybalid, Loma Linda, CA
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What a beautiful memorial service. What an incredible woman Becky was. I feel so blessed to have known her in a small way. Becky called me after I posted that I couldn't stop crying when I found out about her diagnosis. I hadn't heard her voice in years. That she cared enough to do so- to reconnect, and to chat... it will always mean so much to me. She made me braver- her fearlessness was contagious. I have so much love for Japhet and Becky. You two made all our lives better. Thank you.
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Becky looked at the world differently.
We are all better for it.
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Becky was a brilliant, creative kid that stood out in the drama group at my first church in Kirkland, WA, where I had the privilege of starting in youth ministry. I remember her as hilarious, understated, and smart with a spiritual depth that betrayed her age. In more recent years, it was always a highlight crossing paths at the Boulder Church and One Project Conferences with Becky. Then, in more recent months, I prayed for her daily and read everything I could find that she posted, as it was Beckily deep as she faced the brevity of this life with such courage and genius. The world is a darker place today without Becky, but still reverberates with the hope that binds our human story together that today is but a celebration of a life well-lived as we anticipate this earth made new. We will see you in the morning. Karl
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Biggest hugs, Eric & Darlene Stevens
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I was [ sad] when I heard the news of Becky's passing.
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So much love and continued prayers to you all.
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We are deeply saddened by Becky's passing. She was generous and caring, and we cherish the memories we shared during our three years together in Newbold. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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A few months ago I felt compelled to call Becky. I'm the kind of chick who runs around crazy in 50 directions with kids activities, work, aging parents, personal interests, etc. Reaching out to friends matters to me, but I have to squeeze it into the little cracks between all the rest of everything. So when the feeling struck that I wanted to call Becky, I was driving. I opted to pull off in the library parking lot to make the call. We talked about life and kids and values and our Adventist upbringing... just stuff. It was the last time I talked to Becky.
Today I had some things to grab at the library. Quick trip. In and out. As I pulled into the parking lot, rather unexpectedly, I burst into tears. I was instantly struck with the memory and the realization that I would never get to just pull off the road and call Becky again. I sat in my car, hugging the steering wheel and crying for I don't know how long. But I felt I needed to sit with it as long as it took.
Grief is crazy like that. It's not even the first time I've been back to the library since that phone call or since Becky passed away. I go to the library all the time! Why then did it just bash me in the face today? It doesn't really matter. It just did! I love you Becky! A person can't have enough friends like you!!
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My love and prayers to you and your precious boys, Japhet. Becky was one in a million. She was such an inspiration to all of us on this journey, and I learned so much from her in just this short time. Praying for the hope of Christ to burn brightly in your hearts through this dark valley.
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My sincere condolences to your family. Becky was a consummate professional who focused on excellence. I was privileged to work with her and would have liked to have known her as a friend as well as a colleague. Strength and peace to all of you as you struggle with this terrible loss.
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So glad for Becky’s life and precious memories. May sparkles of hope in the resurrection mingle with your tears of loss.
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Japeth & families I have followed Becky's story form the beginning, laughing and crying as she told of the journey,
She has inspired me and I look forward to meeting her in the "New Earth" along with her son and reacquainting with you - I remember you as youth director for the SEC in UK!
May God continue to be with you and bless you as well as comfort you as you continue your journey.
Blessings to you & your sons.
Harriette
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