I met PK in the fall of my Senior Year of high school. I knew who he was – that guy in POST with the big laugh, high energy, and outdoors skills far better than most of us – but we weren’t really friends yet. And then one day, he plopped down in the chair next to mine in History class and started talking to me like we’d known each other for years. So I just ran with it, and within weeks a friendship had taken root. And over the course of that year, it grew stronger, so by the end of high school, he was one of my closest friends.
He was always eager to take part in our stupid POST skits and whip out his funny Southern accent, and I always admired his love and appreciation for the outdoors. It was on a camping trip in Vantage, just the two of us, that we found out we had both gotten into USC. I remember pulling onto the side of the road in the middle of nowhere and frantically checking our emails through the one bar of reception. We shared so much joy in that moment, realizing we had both achieved this dream and would be able to venture into college together.
PK and I lived together for the first two years of college, and I know, thinking back on it now, that this experience was one of the greatest gifts I have ever received. He was a beacon of light and positivity and was the type of person everyone wanted to hang around. I credit him for introducing me to many of my closest college friends and for spearheading our countless adventures.
He was a very spontaneous guy, which made for a hilarious and exciting roommate. I remember returning from class one day to find our entire room rearranged and PK ready with a pitch on why it was now better. Or the time he taught himself how to solder, so he could set up a speaker system in our room – which was followed by many noise complaints and visits from RA, but also a fair share of fun times and new friendships.
He made such a big impact on the lives of so many people, even those who only met him a few times, and I was always so proud to be his roommate and friend. I respected and admired him tremendously. I admired how he was full of hope and courage, always willing to try new things, talk to strangers, and explore the world. I admired how he knew what he liked and thought was cool and went out and did it. I admired how much he talked about and loved his siblings and family and I remember how thrilled he was when Charlie visited us Sophomore year.
And he was such a reassuring, thoughtful, generous, and inspiring friend. The type of person who would believe in you so much, that you had no choice but to believe in yourself. I will never forget that laugh and how good it made me feel to hear it alongside our many jokes.
I am so thankful that I got to share years of my life with PK and will cherish these memories forever. I am sending all of my love to the Kubiniec family. Peter was one of the most wonderful friends I could have ever wished for, and I will miss him dearly.