My name is Gail Dedrick and I worked for Michael at Davis Polk. I guess you could say that I was there for the beginning. I was working at the library reference desk when Michael asked me to help him prototype a law firm ‘intranet’ - a new word to me.
The rest is history and the happiest time of my professional life. I became ‘Web Services’ and with my sister department under Michael, ‘Professional Systems,’ we felt like we were the luckiest people in the firm.
There is one anecdote I wanted to share. You would think it would be a memory of one of our development or design victories, but no. I hold those memories dear, too, but they don’t reflect the meat of the man. This one does:
I wouldn’t say I was a difficult employee, but there was a certain square-peg-in-a-round-hole aspect to being my manager. On one particular day, I was forced into a half-assed managerial seminar and I guess you could say I was a little too sarcastic for my own good. I was called on the carpet by HR, or what substituted for HR in those days. Michael was on vacation, but upon his arrival he was greeting by a memo detailing my antics. I got the call I dreaded.
“Hi, Gail. Michael. Could you come to my office?” Oh, how I hated to disappoint Michael. I walked to his office in a stupor. I didn’t know what to expect. Michael didn’t often get mad, but I braced myself.
“Hi,” he said in tone somewhere between cheery and weary, “would you close the door?”
My heart practically stopped.
“I have a memo here from Kathleen and … well, I’m not going to read the whole thing, but she closes with ‘… Gail expressed regret for her behavior.’ Is that true?”
And out tumbled my whole story of this disastrous seminar and my deep shame at having reflected badly on him and our department. Michael listened patiently and when I was done he traced his finger on the table in a circle like he did when he was about say something difficult.
“Gail, when things like this happen what makes me sad is that it only reinforces in Administration’s mind their worst suspicions about you. That you’re too blunt, too unpredictable, and that makes me sad because they don’t see what I see, what everyone in Professional Systems sees. Someone who brings passion and fire and humor to our work. So the next time you find yourself in a similar situation I want you to remember that we love and appreciate you for who you are and you can be your authentic self with us,” and with that characteristic twinkle he added, “… and maybe that will make it easier for you to be a little a less yourself around Administration.”
The way I remember it I may have cried just a little. I’m certainly crying now, but I can hardly articulate what an impression that meeting left on me. His managerial style was unlike anyone I have ever met and his kindness, insight and compassion left a mark on me.
I took an early retirement in 2018. Michael may have specifically flown to NYC from Napa to speak at my firm shindig. He made it sound like it was a coincidence, but I suspect it wasn’t. That’s so Michael.
I dearly loved him. I hope he knew that. It would not be an exaggeration to say I owe him everything.