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In memory of
Rev. Jay Wilman Spoonheim
July 2, 1931 - July 27, 2025
Jul 2, 1931 - Jul 27, 2025
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Jay served on the board of this organization which is dedicated to ending veteran homelessness in Oklahoma City. He looked forward to the day the veterans village opened. A $20,000 matching gift is available.
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Memories & condolences
Sorry to hear about Jays passing. I’m one of Bernice Spoonheim Lynch’s sons and I was trying to track him down. May he …
Sorry to hear about Jays passing. I’m one of Bernice Spoonheim Lynch’s sons and I was trying to tra…
Sorry to hear about Jays passing. I’m one of Bernice Spoonheim L…
Sending love and hugs to you Isa, Joel, Tait, Sara and all who knew and loved Jay. The service was wonderful -- it was …
Sending love and hugs to you Isa, Joel, Tait, Sara and all who knew and loved Jay. The service was …
Sending love and hugs to you Isa, Joel, Tait, Sara and all who k…
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