My very first encounter with Jim was in the Sierra Club tent at the Earth Day Festival. I was curious as to who our new volunteer might be... And there he was: a tall, calm, gentle soul with a serene way and an easy spirit! I instantly knew that he was going to be an exceptional friend and a member of the team! Though it was spring (or so we thought), the cold Michigan winds managed to keep us fidgeting on our toes that we may remain warm! Jim saved me from complaining the whole time by telling me about his children and how truly proud of them he was, of the time they had recently spent hiking and the love they shared for nature. I remember thinking to myself, "he must be an exceptional father!" There was simply something about his peaceful ways that filled me with hope for this planet. It's not often one gets that feeling, and certainly not while thinking about the environment! You should have seen us when we discovered the beverage tent and were finally able to get our numb fingers around a hot cup of coffee! Boy, were we jumping for joy!!
What touched me the most in knowing Jim was his participation during the illness of an elder group member. When we called for a meeting to discuss how we may take turns and visit, I was surprised to see Jim take part, as he was new to the team and didn't know the member well. But that did not stop him from being present for that member, for taking time and visiting to read to him at the nursing facility, and for creating some of the best conversations with our friend during that difficult time. It meant so much to all of us, and we knew then: he was not only a team member, but also part of the family.
I feel such gratitude for the chance to know this Amazing human being and wish he could stay longer with us on the planet he loved so dearly. He will be deeply missed, but never forgotten. May his peace circle back to encompass all who are grieving his departure.~*
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I had worked with James for several years with PM LAV as his supervisor and co-worker, I am very saddened to hear of your loss. James was a dedicated and thorough Engineer who worked diligently to ensure the Marines would receive the best equipment possible. He was also a joy to work with, very respectful and he truly cared for his co-workers by always assisting others in need of Engineering advice at a moment's notice.
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I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I was lucky enough to get to work with Jim before he retired from Govt service and he was a model employee, super smart engineer, and the nicest, kindest, and most patient person ever. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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I am very sorry for your loss. I worked with Jim for a short time and he was such a kind and helpful guy, always ready to lend a hand when I was trying to figure things out.
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I am so very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I enjoyed working with him. He was always so kind, sweet, and respectful. I loved hearing about his travel adventures with his family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time.
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Thank you all for posting your memories and pictures of Jim. I picked Jim to be my partner and father of my children with good reason! My heart sings with each memory!
Felice
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My deepest condolences to James family and friends.
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James was such a smart, witty, and fun guy! I enjoyed working with him and have so many fond memories of him. I loved the stories he would share about his family - he was a great family man and his stories proved that. He knew something about everything! One thing James and I had in common was our morning oatmeal ( he was more dedicated to eating it every day than I was). We loved to discuss how we prepared and his love for steel cut oats influenced me to embrace them as my new favorite.
Sending my prayers and condolences to the family!
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I love the picture of him laughing. I will always remember him with this picture in mind. I was blessed to have known him and worked with him. My condolences to his family.
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I am so sad to hear this :-( James was a great guy to work with. He was always helpful and kind. He would talk about his wilderness adventures with his family. I'd like to think he's on to his next big adventure now. My thoughts and prayers are with Felice, Nikki, and Joe. He spoke of all of you often with great love and admiration. Please take care DeSautelle family
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My sincere condolences to Jim's family. Such a kind and generous soul. He had a contagious smile that would always lift people's spirits. I'm sorry to hear of his passing.
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2015, Detroit Arsenal, MI
James and the rest of the LAV-AT Team
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I met Jim when I was 8. He made me laugh a lot! As long a I can remember, he'd greet me with, "hey Cynth" and a smile. He exuded kindness, comedy and adventure. Whenever I hear the term Uper, I immediately think of him and a quote from one of our visits to the cabin, "eh, anyone wanna go for a canoe ride, eh?" and smile. So very grateful to have known him and so very sorry to Nikki and Joe for losing their dad and Felice for losing her husband. I hope with time the warm memories will bring comfort.
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Love you James! It was so wonderful spending time with you hugs and kisses to the family’
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I am so sorry to hear this news. My deepest condolences to you, Nikki, and to Felice and Joe. We used to go to the Detroit Jazz Fest together and one year I remember going with your dad. We had split up and then come upon him dancing so energetically at one of the stages. From my memory the initial reaction was ‘who is that person dancing like that, oh it’s your dad!’ His arms and legs were everywhere! He was enjoying the music and moving so much. I also always remember him being such a kind and gentle person, and the kind things you always said about him. Sending much love to you.
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I worked on the team that sat next to Jim but we would talk. He was always a happy, never had a bad thing to say, polite and caring individual. The world needs more people like that. I'm sorry to hear of his passing.
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My sincere condolences to this wonderful human's family and friends. I need some as well, as I am very, very saddened to hear of the loss of this Good Man. I worked with Jim for over 4 years at GVSC STS Engineering. He sat in the next cube behind me. We were on the same vehicle team. He was the absolute most polite, considerate, thoughtful, intelligent, witty, helpful, jovial, and supportive coworker, and person, that anyone could ever want. He was always willing to give me a helping hand if I needed something sorted, solved, stacked (mathematical stack ups), or just to go grab paper for the printer that separated our cubes. If he ever asked for help from me, I was right there, feeling honored that he would actually ask, as he never liked to bother others. He was a very hard working and conscientious employee and was always worried about getting his work completed, done well, and turned in by the suspense dates. I also think that he was one of those people that would literally give you the shirt off of his own back to cover yours. The many photo's here are exactly what I would have expected to see, and they brought tears to my eyes. We shared many laughs, as well, he had a great laugh, and I loved hearing of his travels, of his wife's rowing, and of his children's endeavors and triumphs.
To his wonderful young adult children; always remember that his smile is your smile, and a beautiful smile it is. You will smile again, and the world will be better for it.
I wish for the Peace and Blessings of God to all.
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My sincere sympathy to Jim’s family. My mom always talks about how Jimmy and my dad would look at dad’s coin collection when Jim visited. The pictures posted on this site are wonderful reflections of his smile and kind heart. Hugs.
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We are all creatures of this great earth -- Interconnected in ways beyond understanding.
Take elephants. So big. So strong. And yet, when a member of the herd passes, even the mighty strong elephants mourn. They gather around, extend their trunks, and gently touch the tusks of their fallen friend. It is their ritual. It is how they heal. And yes . . . it is sad, it is beautiful, and it is sacred.
So maybe what I am trying to say is that the world doesn't expect you--Jim's loved ones--to be fine with this. Each person who loved Jim needs to BE how they need to BE. Mourn how you need to mourn. And know that you are thought of with tremendous love and supported in your thoughts and memories of Jim.
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Our thoughts are with the DeSautelle/Jurasin extended families and others whose lives were brightened by Jimmy’s presence.
For me, my sister Kelly captured his spirit when reflecting back this weekend on a visit to Lake Superior when Jimmy looked around, smiling and said “That’s nice, hey”
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