IN LOVING MEMORY OF CALISTA
It’s taken me a long emotional minute to process the loss. Calista meant the world to me, and the news of her passing was absolutely crushing. My wife, Stasia, and I met Heather and Jonas after they moved into our building in the Arts District in Los Angeles. We run a talent agency on the first floor and tend to end our days on the communal stoop with a glass of wine — hard to miss us. With our modern family of five kids, ages 20–26, we were thrilled to meet the Lees and quickly became friends… and far more than that.
When Calista was a junior in high school, Jonas asked if she could intern at our agency before her senior year. She spent the summer working in our commercial and literary departments, and she was classic Calista — always delivering, always questioning, always searching for ways to improve the offering. At the end of the internship, she asked if she could show our team an AI script-coverage app she had developed. Of course!, bring it on! Her presentation was at least two years ahead of every other coverage tool out there — truly remarkable. I encouraged her to launch her app as a venture, but she wasn’t interested.
The following summer, I brought her back to assist on several film and TV projects I was developing. With her AI instincts and sharpness, she helped me build a flushed out TV series bible — normally a months-long process of 40–60 pages. It took her three days to generate the foundation (and another month with me polishing), but it was extraordinary. I sent it to a top literary agent in LA who replied, “I wish my clients delivered TV series bibles this good.” Her vision and fortitude were beyond her years. Everything about her future felt bright, immediate, and within reach of those searching to push the limits.
Jonas used to say that Calista was intimidated by me. Fair — I can be demanding and direct but my intentions are always about growth. Her instincts to push back were slowly coming out, and I encouraged that. Then something shifted by the end of the internship; suddenly she was completely at ease being unapologetically herself, filled with moxie. As our families grew closer, she knew she had an ally in me. She’d drop by the stoop or stop into the agency to talk — about school, boys, ambitions, and how the 70s, 80s, and 90s records I gave her had become the hearth of her dorm room. As a dad with my own kids, I never hesitated to offer advice (sometimes counter to her parents’), but I always knew she’d find her own way.
When Jonas shared the devastating news, I couldn’t begin to fathom the depths of pain Heather, Jonas, and Noah were facing. I cried every day for a week. The thought of not being part of her unfolding, unknown future life — of not witnessing this remarkable young woman claim her future — was too hard to comprehend.
I cannot express my adoration for Calista in a way that fully captures the depth of her gifts, her spirit, and her impact on everyone she touched. She will be missed beyond measure.