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I was so sorry to hear about Calista's passing. She was such an incredibly sweet and thoughtful person. From the first time I met her she went out of her way to be welcoming and inclusive. She always made me and so many others feel seen and valued. Though I only met her this year, her humor, consideration of others, inherent coolness, and whole presence made her stand out immediately. I know she will be deeply missed by me and so many others.
Sending much love and condolences to the whole family. Xoxo 
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Heather was my first mom friend at Noah and Madeleine’s preschool and we became fast friends, along with our entire families.  Calista was always such a little firecracker.  We haven’t seen you all in a while but we have so many fond memories of you and your extended families, we cannot imagine the devastation everyone is feeling. We are so incredibly sorry for your loss, our thoughts and hearts are with you. 

Dear Heather, Jonas, and Noah,

Greg and I have been searching for a photo that Greg took of Calista at our home. We're so disappointed that we haven't found it yet.

It was before the pandemic, probably at one of our tennis parties... She was wearing an oversized bunny head, holding a "Not-A-Flamethrower" by The Boring Company. She might have been blasting a flame from it, too. 

That photo seemed to reveal a lot—her humor and uniqueness...

It's been a privilege to read about her from those who knew her better and to read her writings. Clearly, she was brilliant, quirky, kind, funny, multi-talented, beautiful, with deep thoughtfulness, curiosity, and sensitivity. I have really appreciated getting to know how she observed, felt, and cared about many things. 

Words can't describe our sadness over her passing...

I, at the very least, will continue to read and re-read her writings to continue to honor her and her life.

With much love,

Sophia

The wind kicked up Peggy Sue’…
2025, Yermo, California, on the way to Vegas
The wind kicked up Peggy Sue’s 50’s Diner — with Amelia McGovern

I am honored to have known Calista. She was truly a special human being, bright, kind, and inquisitive. A deep thinker. She was a wonderful friend to my daughter Amelia, and we loved having her at our home last summer after her internship at Idealab. I am so glad we were able to spend more time with her then. I am also proud to say I even converted her into a country music fan after taking her to see Kenny Chesney in concert in Vegas on our family road trip.

My heart hurts knowing the world has lost someone so extraordinary. I have been reading all the beautiful tributes here and looking through the photos, grateful to learn even more about her and the impact she had on so many.

The Lees have always felt like family to us, and my heart is with Jonas, Heather, Noah, her aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents during this incredibly difficult time. 💞

I am so sorry for your loss. May you be comforted by memories of the joyous times and know that Calista was loved by her teachers and friends at Grace Church School. 
Charles and I struggle to find the words to convey our sorrow and sympathy. We will always remember the funny and spirited girl we met skiing wearing her ice cream hat. Perhaps we can be consoled by the thought of her in heaven and  smiling down upon her loved ones as a guardian angel. With much love, Marina & Charles 
You will always be a superstar in our eyes. The kind of star that is both luminous and introspective; wild yet reserved. You carried  the beauty and grace of your mother, and the ingenuity from your dad. I will always remember the love that Noah had for his little sister. He was your guiding light. Rest in peace, dear Calista. May the angels watch over you always. 
Telluride, Spring of 2022. Calista, effervescent as ever in her squirrel ski suit entertaining us all on our way to lunch at Allreds. The fastest, most graceful on the slopes even with that enormous tail. Calista was always so kind and sweet to my girls who were much younger than her. Here she is indulging Isla with humor, patience and that moxie twinkle in her eyes. We love all of you Calista. We shall all return to this favorite spot with squirrel suits in your eternal memory. 
Calista and Heather at Alpino…
2022, Telluride, CO, USA
Calista and Heather at Alpino Vino. They did not drink all that wine :-)
My heart goes out to the Lee, the Chan and the Chi families. May her memory be a blessing.
To Noah, Jonah, Heather, Eileen and Heidi, I knew Eileen when she was living in New York City years ago and I remember meeting Jonah and Heidi back then as well. I wanted to let you all know how sorry I am to hear this news. Calista seems like she was a force of nature – beautiful, brilliant, and clearly beloved. I too have been touched by a similar loss, losing two of my siblings to suicide within the last 2 1/2 years. Like Calista, they fought valiantly against their illness before they made the difficult decision to end what was unimaginable pain.  Although the losses were difficult, I've been able to appreciate the magic and beauty they brought to my life and how it has shaped me. I now know how one becomes an immortal - by living within those that they have encountered. I hope you find  comfort in recognizing that so many people have had the chance to experience Calista's spark as you all undoubtably have. Overtime,  I hope this gives you comfort and brings peace to you all. 
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Heather & Jonas, please accept our condolences and deepest sympathies.  We remember seeing/meeting Calista when you guys lived in NYC way back when.  We are so sorry for your loss.  

IN LOVING MEMORY OF CALISTA

It’s taken me a long emotional minute to process the loss. Calista meant the world to me, and the news of her passing was absolutely crushing. My wife, Stasia, and I met Heather and Jonas after they moved into our building in the Arts District in Los Angeles. We run a talent agency on the first floor and tend to end our days on the communal stoop with a glass of wine — hard to miss us. With our modern family of five kids, ages 20–26, we were thrilled to meet the Lees and quickly became friends… and far more than that.

When Calista was a junior in high school, Jonas asked if she could intern at our agency before her senior year. She spent the summer working in our commercial and literary departments, and she was classic Calista — always delivering, always questioning, always searching for ways to improve the offering. At the end of the internship, she asked if she could show our team an AI script-coverage app she had developed. Of course!, bring it on! Her presentation was at least two years ahead of every other coverage tool out there — truly remarkable. I encouraged her to launch her app as a venture, but she wasn’t interested.

The following summer, I brought her back to assist on several film and TV projects I was developing. With her AI instincts and sharpness, she helped me build a flushed out TV series bible — normally a months-long process of 40–60 pages. It took her three days to generate the foundation (and another month with me polishing), but it was extraordinary. I sent it to a top literary agent in LA who replied, “I wish my clients delivered TV series bibles this good.” Her vision and fortitude were beyond her years. Everything about her future felt bright, immediate, and within reach of those searching to push the limits.

Jonas used to say that Calista was intimidated by me. Fair — I can be demanding and direct but my intentions are always about growth. Her instincts to push back were slowly coming out, and I encouraged that. Then something shifted by the end of the internship; suddenly she was completely at ease being unapologetically herself, filled with moxie. As our families grew closer, she knew she had an ally in me. She’d drop by the stoop or stop into the agency to talk — about school, boys, ambitions, and how the 70s, 80s, and 90s records I gave her had become the hearth of her dorm room. As a dad with my own kids, I never hesitated to offer advice (sometimes counter to her parents’), but I always knew she’d find her own way.

When Jonas shared the devastating news, I couldn’t begin to fathom the depths of pain Heather, Jonas, and Noah were facing. I cried every day for a week. The thought of not being part of her unfolding, unknown future life — of not witnessing this remarkable young woman claim her future — was too hard to comprehend.

I cannot express my adoration for Calista in a way that fully captures the depth of her gifts, her spirit, and her impact on everyone she touched. She will be missed beyond measure.

The world seems a bit dimmer knowing that Calista's spark is missing, at least physically. I loved knowing her and telling her story. I send my deepest condolences to Heather, Jonas, and Noah for their immeasurable loss.  
Jonas, Heather, Eileen, Heidi and to your entire families, I am so very saddened and deeply sorry for your loss - and for the loss to the world of a bright star.  I don’t have the words to express my sorrow - there really are no words - all I can do is feel and keep your family in my prayers.  Although she may not be physically here Calista will always live on in your memories and hearts, and you are all a measure of how much she was loved and treasured.  Rest in peace and in forever love, Calista 🙏🏻
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