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My family and I send our love and prayers to Aprilanne,  Annalisa,  Hayley,  Ariana,  Briellle,  &  Scott  Sweat.  xo

Tanya Vreeken and the Castillo Family

Wow, what should I share. Ben was full of energy. I always enjoyed watching him perform with the Ballroom Team from BYUI.  He was a great dancer but also a great performing. You could see on his face the love he had for dance as well as people in general. You are missed.
Whenever the song "Livin' on a Prayer" by Bonjovi comes on the radio, I think of Ben. This song reminds me of him because of a funny experience that happened on one of our ballroom dance tours (Mexico tour 2001). The ballroom guys were taking turns coming up with cool songs that they would then belt out and sing together.  Well, Ben came up with " Woa, we're halfway there!..." and waited for the other guys to join in but no one did! He was like, "Guys! Don't leave me hanging!" but evidently the other guys didn't know the song, at least not as well as Ben did. ha ha! I think of him every time I hear it and it brings back wonderful and fun memories of Ben. We miss him.
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Was just getting to know Ben - which was very easy to do. Ben was extremely humble and open to people even in our typically more sterile and aloof business colleague setting. We found a few shared intersections - Firstly, Ben had come up with a video game idea he called "Bomb Your Friends".  As he talked about it you could hear his voice and overall energy both rise. It was clear Ben had some unfinished, creative business he missed in his current role focused on real estate financing. He said he came up with the idea for Bomb Your Friends in 2015 - which puts it well ahead of its time. Essentially, it was an extremely social game - as you would choose and send different types of "bombs" to anyone in your social network. The bombs could be in a variety of forms - from photos to trivia questions. Depending on your response to the bombs - a responsive photo or by providing the correct answer - you would either be damaged by or damage the sender. This is actually an incredible simple but powerful social game mechanic. Ben had worked on this game with $150K of seed funding when he worked at Idea Labs - a now historic and even iconic digital think tank that now gets much credit for creating what we now call "start up accelerators". As such, they were not a game development studio and so in the end, Idea Labs lacked the talent to bring Ben's idea fully to market. 

Just reminiscing about his days at Idea Labs revealed a highly energized mind. We talked on a bit about how Bomb Your Friends might fit with some of the current mobile game experiences that have grown so popular lately.

His energy now flowing, Ben went on to describe several more game ideas he had worked to bring to fruition prior to Idea Labs including - "8 bit pigs" - a game loosely based on something similar to Minecraft's gameplay and "Club Cave Man" - which he described as "Subservient Chicken meets Dora the Explorer". It was clear to me that Ben had a creative side that needed more time and attention.

So much so that, with my video gaming background and talent connections, I offered to help him bring Bomb Your Friends to market if he could go get the original IP from Bill Gross at Idea Labs. 

He sounded a little more than intrigued...

We missed that journey together - if it would have ever happened - but I definitely missed the rest of getting to know Ben, something I was very much looking forward to. However, we also shared a faith. How comforting to know that Ben is where we all long to be when God is finished using us up on earth - whenever that is, only He knows.

dbb

Aprilanne, Brielle and the entire Sweat Family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I wish there were words to help ease your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this tremendously difficult time. Sending love, hugs and my deepest sympathies. 

Love,

Sarah Bell

 (Brielle’s Kinder Teacher) 

Savvy Outdoors
2022, Austin, TX, USA
Savvy Outdoors
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Ben was a customer of mine. I only met him a couple of times, but he left me with a strong impression. He was very easy to talk to as a customer, I can see that he trusts people and respects people.

I listened to Ben's podcast to show him my respect and condolence. I am very inspired by his love for family, business, the community, and life as a whole.

My father was a person just like Mr. Ben and I lost my father when I was one year old. I can feel Ben's family's deepest pain in losing the loved one. My motivation for life is to live it to the fullest that my beloved father didn't get to finish. My father is passed but his spirit is always with me.

And I know Ben will always live with his family and community forever.

Sincerely
My sincere condolences to the entire family. Although it has been about 15 years since I last worked with Ben, I was still very much affected by his passing. I took me a while to summon the courage to write this. I remember Ben as a very smart, creative and hard working colleague. Many times, I wished I could be just half as good as Ben. Ben not only inspired me professionally, but also as a person. His love & commitment for his wonderful family seemed endless. He lived proudly, and seemingly effortlessly, by his principles. I hope I will honor his name by taking that Ben as an inspiration for the rest of my life. Rest in peace Ben.
There are no words to convey how sorry I am for your loss. All of my love and my deepest sympathies go to you and your beautiful family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May the love and light  that surrounds you help bring peace to you and your sweet children. I’m so sorry Aprilanne. 
I met Ben the end of my junior year of high school at a ballroom dance showcase where our two rivaling teams came together to perform at The Civic Auditorium in Idaho Falls, Idaho. My first impressions were “Wow, he is really tall” and “Wow, he can really dance!”

We became fast friends and, I would even say, he was my best friend in high school. Although, I am sure many others felt the same way. He was truly one of a kind and an amazing person.

Ben had a quick smile and a zest for life that drew people to him instantly. He was kind, thoughtful, and a little mischievous. He was easy to talk to, and always willing to bust out his best disco moves or vocal impersonations at a moments notice. Some of my favorite memories include:

Dancing, dancing, dancing- so much dancing. There were lots of early morning and late night practices. We were competition partners, routine partners, and even performed together at The Miss Idaho Falls pageant competition. After late night dance practices, Ben would follow me home for a distance to make sure I was safe. He would turn off for the Iona exit and I would then continue on to Rigby. One night, as we were driving home from practice, I was involved in a hit and run accident. The car who hit me ran a stop light, t-boned my car, and then took off. Ben was the first one on the scene. He helped me get out of my car safely, and called the police and our parents. He also helped me study for my test the next day while we waited, and stayed with me until my parents arrived.

We went water skiing together a few times with friends, and Ben perfected what we joked about as “The Super Man” pose. Not quite able to pull himself up to a standing position, he would stretch out horizontally with the rope straight out in front of him, and his body would be almost parallel to the water. Super Man became a nickname. He would easily laugh and poke fun at himself, which I always thought was a fantastic personality trait.

The spring of our senior year of high school, we were dance partners preparing to compete at Nationals at BYU in Provo, UT. About the same time, I decided to audition for my high school musical and was given a decent role. When I shared the news with Ben, he immediately called me out telling me that I should be putting that same time into our practice schedule instead, and that I was overextending myself. I was a little irritated with him. Well, he ended up being right. I did overextend myself and it was a super stressful and busy few months. However, he supported me in my theatrical ambitions and came to multiple musical performances, and even brought his parents and brother, Matt, to one of them.

I remember so many fun dates and activities to include: paint balling in the mountains in full military fatigues, rollerblading at the river front, sledding in the dark, watching movies with a portable TV and VCR at the green belt, high school dances, free movies at the movie theater where he worked, hanging out with his nieces and nephews, educating me on the fine art of firework sales, teasing my younger siblings, board games with my family, and playing pranks on our friends.

We both had an interest in writing and journalism. Ben was Editor-in-Chief of his high school newspaper, and I was Entertainment Editor of my high school newspaper. We both went to a state newspaper competition in Sun Valley, Idaho. I think it was there that Ben tried ice skating for the first time. Again, he was quick to poke fun at himself and his attempts at ice skating, while not taking himself too seriously. Ben was the one who encouraged me to apply for a college newspaper scholarship for The Scroll, BYU Idaho’s campus newspaper. He brought over his three-hole puncher, and we got right to work putting my portfolio together. We consequently hung out that night talking until well past 2 am, at which point, my dad woke up and realized there was a boy still in the house. I was promptly grounded for two weeks. We were both on scholarship for The Scroll newspaper staff our freshman year together, and I have so many great memories from those newspaper days.

It was also at BYU-I that we perfected some of our favorite pranks which included- super gluing quarters to the sidewalk and watching students bend over to pick them up. Another favorite prank was tying fishing line to the end of a dollar bill and placing it on the sidewalk. We would then hide in a near by bush, and slowly pull the dollar away as students tried to claim it. If they were quick enough to catch it, we generously gifted the dollar to the victor. This prank worked best at dusk.

More recently, we both lived a few hours from each other in Texas for a couple of years. I was finally able to meet Aprilanne and his beautiful family. We enjoyed talking for hours while our kids played. It was clear to me, how much he loved his family, and how much they adored him.

During the great Texas Snowmagedan in February of 2021, our neighborhood in San Antonio lost water for 7 days. Upon hearing this, Ben checked in with us almost every day. He offered to let our family come stay with them in Austin, and even offered his personal hotel points to use at a local hotel. He was such a kind and generous friend.

Ben will be greatly missed. He influenced my life in countless ways, and I am a better person for knowing him. I am devastated and heartbroken over his passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I pray that they can feel the arms of our loving Savior wrapped around them, and peace in the knowledge of The Plan of Salvation. So many of us loved Ben. He will never be forgotten.
- Fly High Super Man
Dog and Pony
2018, Boerne, TX, USA
Dog and Pony — with Ben and Aprilanne Sweat
BHS Sweetheart Dance
1996, Idaho Falls, ID, USA
BHS Sweetheart Dance — with Ben Sweat and Marnie Sterzer Parker
High School Photo Collage
1996, Idaho Falls, ID, USA
High School Photo Collage — with Ben Sweat and Marnie Sterzer Parker
BHS Homecoming
1995, Idaho Falls, ID, USA
BHS Homecoming — with Ben Sweat and Marnie Sterzer Parker
Our deepest condolences to your family.
Our hearts hurt with the loss of Ben. He was a great man. Please let us know if there is anything at all that we can do to help. Do not hesitate to ask us! We love you guys!!
Bird Family
I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you🙏
Christmas Trip to see the lig…
2021, San Antonio, TX, USA
Christmas Trip to see the lights and stay up late playing games in a hotel
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Aprilanne-

Many thoughts and prayers and love are with you and your family! I am so so sorry for your loss of your dear sweet husband and father. I pray that the Savior will wrap you and your family in His arms, as you mourn and grieve your loss. 

Much love,

Marianne Harman

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