Ron is my oldest brother, so I have known him all my life. It is an impossible task to summarize what he meant to me, but I want to share some memories since I am unable to attend his memorial service.
From my earliest memories, Ron demonstrated intelligence, curiosity, an unquenchable thirst for reading, high memory capacity, and incredible mathematical ability. He had an analytical mind and conducted his own experiments as a boy. He read the entire World Book Encyclopedia and the Bible from cover to cover and seemed to recall details easily. He loved both science facts and science fiction, and it seemed clear to everyone that he was destined for a career in science. I was in awe of his abilities.
What many do not know, is that he also enjoyed literature, music, and wrote poetry. He loved his wife, children, grandchildren, parents, and siblings deeply. For example, in 1972, when Ron and Alida were living in Seattle, I went to their apartment after leaving a bad date, and I asked Ron for a ride home to Tacoma. He immediately agreed, and I appreciated that he did not ask for details as he cheered me up talking about other things. It was a kind and loving act. Those who were close to Ron knew that he could sometimes sense things that others missed.
Ron’s family was a source of pride for him. He often would share some achievement that one of his children had done, or a project that Alida had completed. Because Ron sometimes set impossibly high standards for himself, he was hard on himself. He played games to win and worked to discover ways to control the outcome. Wrestling was a passion for him, and he enjoyed his volunteer work supporting young wrestlers. He also volunteered at Lakes High after retirement helping support student learning in the science labs.
However, in spite of Ron’s best efforts, his diabetes was hard to manage and impacted his overall health. He miraculously survived a near fatal heart attack and had a difficult recovery. At the same time, he seemed to have an even greater appreciation for his life and family. Alida took care of him and he took care of her. Their love began as “table-mates” in a high school science lab and lasted close to 60 years.
I know Ron’s death was heartbreaking for Alida, as well as their five children and six grandchildren. I send them my love and deepest sympathy.
I have never known anyone like my brother Ron. I loved him and I truly miss him. We both had fun sharing old memories when we talked. He also enjoyed having a good debate and routinely replied to my questions with a question. If I asked,“How are you, Ron?” He’d reply with a chuckle, “Compared with what?”