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John's timeline

1943
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Born

December 31st, 1943
Brooklyn, NY, with parents, younger siblings Ginny and Kevin
1966
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Graduated from college

1966
B.S. in Foreign Service
1967
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Had a child, Michael Oakes

November 5th, 1967
Stuttgart, Germany
1969
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Started a job at Chase Manhattan Bank

1969
New York, NY
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Had a child, Kelly Oakes

January 7th, 1969
Stuttgart, Germany
1971
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Had a child, Sean Oakes

May 26th, 1971
Teaneck, NJ
1979
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Got married to Carole Shea

August 11th, 1979
Sloatsburg, NY
1986
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Moved

1986
Boston, MA
1996
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Merrill Dodd joined the family

1996
Granite Bay, CA, Merrill with Nicole, Randy, David, and Megan
1998
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Moved

1998
Palos Verdes, CA
2010
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Moved

2010
New Milford, CT
2025
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Passed away

May 30th, 2025
New Milford, CT
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