Steve, Laura, and Ellie,
I wanted to reach out to you to talk about Jack after his Celebration of Life. I am so sorry that I didn’t get up to talk about him, but I felt it was more a space for family and close friends.
Ellie, I have to tell you just how proud I am of you. I personally find it difficult to breathe at these types of services, but Ellie, you did such a fabulous job organizing your speakers, keeping the ball rolling, and talking about Jack in a current and loving way. He would have loved it. Seeing you fill that space assures me that you will be ok and that you can move forward without letting this set you back, he wouldn’t have wanted that.
I have thought of him so very much since the event. Jack worked with Sarasota Bay Watch multiple times over the years: cleanups, scallop restoration, clam releases, and tabling events. If Jack Martin was at an event, it was a sunny day! I loved seeing him. His smile was illuminating. He was always helpful, cheerful, and polite. He was competent on and in the water. He often brought friends to events with him, so it was always fun. He loved being part off the project and outside.
I could trust Jack. He was good with other people and was really so beautiful that people were attracted to him. It was great to have him in the Sarasota Bay Watch tribe. He was a shiny penny.
I have Jack’s picture on a banner with Lauren Jeffrey that I use. Jack was holding a 5-gallon bucket that may have been bigger around than he was at the time. When I see it, I smile. Unless you object, I would love to still use that photo.
It is the roll of the dice what happens to us in life. It can’t be predicted or controlled. As heartbreaking as it is that he is no longer with us, maybe he just shone too brightly to stay with the rest of us.
With the service over it may feel as though people might begin to forget Jack. I will never forget Jack Martin. I really loved that kid and when I think of him, I smile. Like I said if Jack was part of it, you were going to have a good time.
My thoughts are with you and all those that loved Jack Martin, there were a bunch of us.
Ronda Ryan
(Sarasota Bay Watch)