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In 1975, Hank hired me to be the dept admin at Digital.  In short order, he saw my potential and encouraged me to take on more responsibility.  He inspired me to love Management and Organizational Development… I developed into a consultant and went on to work in several large corporations.  When I travelled to San Fran on business, I contacted him and I got to see his fabulous house and art work.  We had a lovely dinner and caught up.  I thought of him today and learned of his passing.  My most sincere condolences.  I will remember Hank’s kindnesses forever.  

Hank was our next-door neighbor and dear friend during the time that we both lived at Bridges in Austin. He became extended family to us and we loved him very much. We're very sorry for his loss. 

Some of the things we appreciated most about him were his brilliance, generosity, sass, laugh, and storytelling. He enjoyed sharing his experiences and did so in the most entertaining, nuanced, and layered way. We spent hours in the hallway between us, chatting (ad nauseam) about business, San Francisco, France, Eric (his son) and Karl/Brad (our sons), politics, and history. I never worried about what to talk about with Hank. He was never without a story. I think we must've kept (most of) our talks to the hallway, which was literally between our doors, for fear that the conversation wouldn't end at some point. He gave THE BEST business advice, without any pretense or condescension -- he had an incredible professional pedigree, but he treated everyone equally and genuinely recognized peoples' unique talents & strengths. He had strong opinions and a fun, sharp sarcasm that made conversation fun and engaging. We shared many dinners, parties, walks, appointments, and leftover dinners with each other. He was a lover of art and had impeccable taste. He was always buttoned up and looked dapper. And he hated fruit-forward wine. But mostly he was real and he was himself. We love that about him. <3 We miss you Hank. 

I have at this late date learned of Hank's passing. I'm truly saddened by this news. Hank was very generous to me as he collected quite a few of my furniture pieces. We hand lunch together a few times and discussed art and artists we both knew. He collected paintings and ceramic sculptures. I felt very comfortable with him. He had a very impressive music collection and was very smart. I will remember him fondly. 
I just learned of Hank's passing when I did a Google search for his name today.  I am sorry to hear this news and I am sorry I did not know earlier.  I had heard he had cancer but it was probably just before he passed.  I'd reached out to him by text and email but now realize he must have been in the end stages.  I so wanted to bring him a meal.  He and I were mentors together here in Austin at SKU, an accelerator for food & beverage CPG brands. Hank came to my home in January 2020 to a party I threw just before the pandemic began.  I was so honored he came and he delighted many guests with intriguing and intelligent conversation....one of his greatest gifts.  I didn't know Hank well but as I sit and type this I am in the exploratory mode of a meal-delivery concept for people with cancer here in Austin.  I just wanted to pay my respects to his family, son and friends here today and I am very glad I met Hank because he is such a memorable person and I got to see him in action sharing his ideas and expertise during the years we were mentors together.  

Hank was always more than just a friend, he was a great mentor, foodie partner-in-crime and a wealth of information on all things technology related. He was also the adopted father of my best friend Erik, and even though our age gap was decades apart, we bonded instantly the first time we met at brunch over a decade ago when he visited Erik in Singapore. 

 Over the years and many regular phone chats, I had come to know Hank as a very caring father, a good friend with a sympathetic and patient ear, and who was sometimes a child at heart when the right topic came up (usually about gadgets, he was such a big nerd about all things Apple). He always had an opinion about the latest gadgets, and sometimes, we would even end up buying the same toys. 

During the last couple of years, we started planning for foodie trips. Our first stop was to be Chicago, and after months of planning we met up in the fall of 2019 and had a memorable dinner at Alinea, together with his nephew Craig and his wife Tara. After that amazing trip, we talked about planning another foodie vacation the following year, but unfortunately, that was the last time I met him in person. Shortly after Chicago, he was diagnosed with cancer, and then Covid happened.

I remember our last conversation, a couple of months before he passed. He was in unusually good spirits, and we chatted for almost three hours. We talked about our usual topics, and about Erik at length, he was always worried about Erik’s well-being. He was an exemplary father, and even though they were in different parts of the world, their bond was very strong, they were both blessed to have had each other in their lives for so many years. 

I will miss him terribly, and I am attaching a photo of Hank contemplating eating a balloon at Alinea below. I will never forget that amazing evening.

Hank contemplating eating a b…
2019, Chicago, IL, USA
Hank contemplating eating a balloon at Alinea
Hank loved his time at the Un…
Hank loved his time at the University of Iowa. This photo shows Hank with good friends at the 40th Anniversary of the Iowa Program for Human Development. Due to a generous donation by Hank, the University of Iowa recently established the Hank Feir Excellence in Music Fund.

Hank has been a mentor during my beginnings as head of marketing for Apple Europe. His advice across the board was invaluable. He helped me navigate the dynamics between the headquarter, the countries and the European office,  He believed in me more than I did at the time. 

I will always be grateful for that. We remained in touch thru my move to Cupertino and my subsequent job changes. He was unique, chatty, insightful, argumentative and sometimes unpredictable. He will stay close to my heart. May he rest in peace.

When Hank moved to Austin, he…
When Hank moved to Austin, he reconnected with Carl and Claire Stuart, who he knew in college. They invited Hank to join their group tour to Cuba. Hank spoke often of the fun they all had, and Carl asked me to post this photo of the group.
A fun memory of Hank being a …
1990, California, USA
A fun memory of Hank being a great sport and playing Pretty Pretty Princess with me as a child. I am pretty sure, by the looks of it he won :). It was always special when his playful side would come out.
Hank with Patrick and me (Car…
2016, Ingleside, IL, USA
Hank with Patrick and me (Carly) at Kelly's wedding. I have known Hank since I was very young and he would come by our home to spend time with my parents, Jim and Linda. He was always so kind and interested in our lives. My first memory of him is him presenting me with a HUGE teddy bear as a gift. Big Bear was a staple in my bedroom throughout my childhood and as an adult, it was a pleasure to get to know him more personally and deeply when he would visit my parents after his move to Austin. It was especially special to have gotten to spend time with him over dinners and lunches in his final months of life and hear him reflect back on all those he loved throughout his life. He will be missed.

Hank hired me to be his EA at FormFactor back in 2006. From the beginning, we had a great working relationship. We would spend hours chatting in his office (sometimes about work but most times about life). He often called me his psychiatrist because he would go on and on about his personal life (which I had no problems listening to).

What started as a great boss, turned into a great friend. We attended a few Giants games together and when he wasn't attending with us, he always volunteered his parking spot for my husband and I to park. The last time I saw him was right before he moved to Texas. I remember crying on BART because I had a feeling I would never see him again. As the years went on, we kept in touch over the phone.  I would update him on my daughters and on my husband and he would tell me of his latest travels. We always caught up about the Giants and if it was "going to be their year". Well Hank, I hope you are wherever you are with a front-row seat. Our boys are going to take it all the way! Rest easy my friend! 

Henry was one of my favorite cousins! I will always remember when my sister and I went to San Francisco and Henry was living there and he went out of his way to pick us up at the hotel and take us to dinner, choosing a restaurant he knew that me as such a picky eater would be happy at. I always enjoyed speaking with Henry and spending time with him when we were able to. I will miss him dearly!❤️
Hank san and Japan team membe…
2010, Shinagawa, Tokyo, Japan
Hank san and Japan team members
I am saddened at the loss of a dear friend, Hank.  We met at the University of Iowa and were classmates, Business School fraternity brothers, roommates for one year, founders of the Univ of Iowa Ski Club and became friends for life. We also shared an appreciation of the visual arts.   I visited him while he lived in San Francisco, and he visited me in Seattle as we have kept in touch by phone over the years.   I always learned something from Hank as he was very intelligent and a fun guy to know.  He is missed.
I met Hank in 1993 when I joined a company in which he invested. We became friends quickly and remained so over almost 30 years. After I left the company in 1999, I saw Hank only a few times, but we communicated by phone frequently. As I am sure you all know, Hank certainly had the gift of gab and there was always a topic du jour. We talked about anything and everything and, of course, all things Apple. Carole, my wife, and I visited Hank while he was living in San Francisco and, more recently, Austin and he visited us in New Jersey and Florida. We always had a great time when we were together and got much enjoyment from our frequent telephone calls. I recognized the names of all of the other people who left messages on this site, as I heard your names over and over and over again. Hank was truly blessed with family and  good friends that he appreciated and spoke of them often. Hank touched our lives in many ways, including participating at our son’s bar mitzvah in California and wedding in New Jersey. We all miss Hank very much, but he lives on in our good memories.
Sonja Garsvo
2018, Cliveden House, Cliveden Road, Taplow, Maidenhead, UK
Hank was the world’s worst at staying In touch! But those who loved him persevered.  He decided out of the blue to visit us in London in 2018 so knowing his enjoyment of grandeur we took him to this famous stately home just outside London. Sadly the last time we actually met. Luckily I had the pleasure of a typical Hank zoom some months back  - always a hoot!  We were due another that never happened due to his death.  He’s pictured here with my husband Richard. Hank and I met at Apple where he pretended to be my boss for a while. We had some great times in London and Paris and he became a family friend.  I will miss you Hank. 
Hank with Kevin, Ted, and Pau…
1980, Weston, MA, USA
Hank with Kevin, Ted, and Paul Sullivan
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Here is a picture of my cousi…
Here is a picture of my cousin, Henry with family. L to R: Myself, Sherry; my sister, Cindy; Henry’s brother-in-law, niece and sister, Arnold, Carrie and Elaine; my dad, George and Henry visiting at The Yardhouse in Deer Park.
“Henry” was my second cousin and I knew him my whole life. My family and I spent many Christmas vacations, Spring Breaks and Summertime visits in Springfield where Henry, as I always knew him to be called, grew up. He was very family-oriented and I thoroughly enjoyed all our interactions throughout the years, the most recent at my daughter’s wedding in 2019. It was so sweet of him to come all the way from Austin to join in the festivities. I spoke with him when he first was diagnosed positive and upbeat. I will miss him very much. ❤️
The earlier contributors are right, Hank could throw a hell of a party! My wife and I met Hank 20 years ago when we all moved into a fancy, brand new condo complex in San Francisco very near the Giants ball park. Hank had the full on bay view and was very generous when it came to sharing it for fire works shows and other events on the bay. A quiet, thoughtful man, we regret falling out of touch in recent years. RIP Hank.

Bob and Peggy Wynne, San Francisco

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