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Gary, the most magnificent bastard I’ve ever met.

One moment, he’s yelling at me, the next, he’s hugging me because I’m being emotional. He’s been there for me in some of my darkest moments, a rock, a true friend. He’s also been the first one to call me out on my bullshit! A true brother in all senses of the word.

I say these things in the present tense because I still hear the guy yelling at me or laughing at some stupid Grandma’s Boy reference. Sitting there, watching RiffTrax or some obscure horror movie we found, he always had some ridiculous comment that would make you choke with laughter. I could not ask for a better cohort.

Beyond his gruff exterior, Gary always had a rare charm that amazed me. The most eloquent and dashing soul that could befriend the entire room. His charisma was astounding, and I will always miss it but never forget. The impression that he’s made will be felt forever…

To quote Charles Bukowski -

“What matters most is how well you walk through the fire.”

Boy did he…

Love you brother

At my wedding, I couldn’t get…
2022, Vancouver, BC, Canada
At my wedding, I couldn’t get a drink and I was coming up to the part I was dreading the most: first dances (not my thing, anxiety galore). So Gary runs off and comes back, with a drink in hand (Jameson & Ginger - both our faves), I start to down it to get the courage to get out. He says “umm you might want to slow down, I got you a quad”. It’s the first and last quad Jameson and Ginger I’ve ever had 😂 but it saved my ass!
The picture's quality doesn't…
The picture's quality doesn't compare to the quality of the guy!
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The man himself, being himsel…
The man himself, being himself. A true friend and ball buster. I will miss you much brother.
My whole family loved Gary, l…
2018, Madison Square Garden, New York, NY, USA
My whole family loved Gary, like a brother, son, you name it. He was part of us, and we all love him so much. — with Amy Parker, Barry Parker and Jesse Parker
My little brother gave me $10…
1990, Emerson, NJ, USA
My little brother gave me $10k towards the downpayment on my condo. Wouldn't own my place without him <3

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