My father cherished a good story. He often reminded me that people simply crave a compelling narrative, sometimes even the ones we tell ourselves. This concept holds so much depth, and I'm certain you'll hear even more about it – all the while telling us your own stories about Doyle Niemann. But for now, let me share this last big story with you.

In early April, my dad visited the chiropractor for some help with a new nagging back pain. It had been bothering him for a while, and he was starting to feel uneasy about it. During the appointment, the chiropractor raised some concerns about his heart and blood pressure. So, when he got home, he checked his blood pressure, and it was through the roof. He eventually called his cardiologist, who didn't hesitate in advising him to head to the hospital. So, on April 2nd, 2024, my dad found himself checking in at the ER.

Once his blood pressure was stabilized, the hospital conducted a battery of tests to uncover the underlying issue. We are lucky they chose to do that. Eventually, they discovered an obstruction in his bile duct, for which they inserted a stent. However, subsequent MRIs revealed a tumor, raising concerns about cancer. So, an endoscopy was performed, and we anxiously awaited the pathology results. Throughout this period, he was forced to remain hospitalized, much to his dismay. (Doyle Niemann did not like lacking control.) Despite the doctors' 95% assurance based on the MRI, they awaited confirmation from the pathology report. And the possibility of needing further procedures underscored the necessity of staying in the hospital, ensuring we could take prompt action if needed. So, we, the family, encouraged him to stay as necessary. No small feat I tell you.

We discovered that the mass in his bile duct was likely the source of his recent back pain. Interestingly, symptoms of a cancerous tumor in that area often don't manifest until later stages, allowing the cancer to spread further and complicating treatment. So, surprisingly, we found ourselves grateful for that back pain. It prompted him to seek medical attention and caused them to want to do more tests. Without it, we might have remained unaware of the tumor for who knows how long.

While my dad was in the hospital, Shea stood tall by my parents' side. Meanwhile, I found myself halfway across the world in Italy, visiting my in-laws, feeling utterly distant from the situation. Similarly, Travis, all the way in Portland, anxiously hovered over the purchase button for a flight. With that physical distance, all we could do was send our love and unwavering support from afar.

The test results confirmed our concerns – the tumor was cancerous, leading to the decision to proceed with a Whipple procedure. This surgery, commonly used for treating pancreatic cancer and related conditions, involves removing parts of the pancreas, small intestine, gallbladder, and sometimes sections of the bile duct and stomach. Afterward, the remaining organs are carefully reconnected to maintain normal digestion.

While the procedure's seriousness weighed heavily on our minds, we found some comfort in knowing it was a common surgery, despite being major, and frequently performed. Despite the risks involved, it was necessary to remove the tumor from the bile duct and address any potential cancer spread. Plus, Papa seemed to really like his surgeon. He was very quick to respond, thoughtful and intelligent. And throughout this entire process, he was there for us. We always felt secure in his care.

After several conversations, Doyle Niemann used his influence to persuade the hospital to allow him to go home before the surgery. While hospitals prefer patients to stay for monitoring, Doyle felt uncomfortable and knew he'd be back for the surgery anyway, so he opted to go home from April 10th to the 18th.

During this time, Travis, Shea, and I coordinated our schedules to provide care and support for our parents. Plane tickets were purchased, and our community rallied to support my dad and our family immediately. On April 17th, I set up the CaringBridge site to keep everyone updated on my dad's progress.

On April 18th, I provided multiple updates to everyone, informing them that my dad was in surgery and in good spirits. He was feeling positive about the process and eager to proceed. Shea and my mom accompanied him to Washington Hospital Center, which was fortunately only 12 minutes from our house. They spoke with the surgeon, who initially hoped to remove just the bile duct if the cancer hadn't spread, keeping the procedure simpler and possibly avoiding the full Whipple. We held onto that hope tightly.

However, my subsequent update revealed that they did indeed perform a full Whipple procedure. The cancer had spread further than anticipated, but the surgeon remained confident that he achieved good margins and removed all affected areas. The surgery lasted 10 hours and was performed using a robotic arm, with only six small incisions made. While we awaited further tests to determine if radiation or chemotherapy would be necessary, it felt like we had overcome the most challenging hurdle.

On April 19th, my mom and Shea went to check on him, and he was already awake, instructing even his own nurses on the intricacies of the Whipple surgery in true Doyle Niemann fashion. While they sat there and talked to him, the outpouring of support from our community lifted his spirits, wishing him a speedy recovery. I arrived in Maryland later that evening, prepared to take over duties from Shea for a few days. Travis would join us later, overlapping with my stay before extending his own to provide further support.

On April 20th, he showed remarkable progress, getting up and moving around despite the challenges of post-surgery recovery. However, the pain medications were causing vivid dreams, prompting him to request a reduction in dosage, which was swiftly accommodated. This adjustment was a positive sign so soon after the surgery. Yet, he experienced two episodes of atrial fibrillation (a-fib), characterized by a rapid and irregular heartbeat. Each episode prompted the rapid response team to intervene, bringing his heart rate back to normal. Concerned about the recurrence of a-fib, the on-duty cardiologist suggested considering an ablation procedure, even during his recovery period, to mitigate the risk once he left the hospital. While we deliberated on this option, his primary surgeon advised against it, preferring a conservative approach with medication. We trusted his judgment and opted to continue with medication, leading to his transfer to the cardiac unit for close monitoring and immediate administration of medication through a drip.

So on April 21st, we found ourselves in a larger room, which made moving around a bit easier. My dad was eager to stretch his legs and enjoyed some coffee and other liquids, although he wasn't thrilled about the numerous IVs in his arm. Despite his discomfort, he tried to negotiate his way out of the hospital once again, using his persuasive skills honed from years of legal and political experience. However, we insisted he stay a bit longer, knowing it was too soon for him to be discharged without sufficient support. He was NOT pleased with our decision, but he reluctantly agreed to stay put. That night wasn't the best for him, and the next day, he admitted my mom was right, which was a rare acknowledgment from him.

Yet, on April 22nd, he DID manage to convince the medical team to remove the IVs, and he happily settled into a recliner, immersed in his phone. At that point, we felt confident that if the doctors deemed it safe, we would bring him home.

On Monday, April 23rd, Papa finally returned home. He was on a liquid diet and had to take a lot of medication, plus there was a drain from one of his incisions. We had a mountain of paperwork and tasks to handle, but before we left the hospital, the surgical team reassured us that Papa's Whipple procedure had been remarkably successful, and he was considered one of their healthier patients. With Travis due to arrive on Wednesday, we felt like we were finally on the road to recovery.

Over the next week, all three of us kids spent time with our Papa. We changed bandages, administered pills with applesauce, and fetched SO MANY new Amazon packages from the porch to bring to his side. With unwavering determination, he ordered all sorts of convenience items from Amazon without hesitation. (Seriously, so many things. Even a new toilet!) While we waited for news and updates on his future path, for the time being, he was home, moving about, and gradually feeling more like himself each day.

I left on Saturday, April 27th to go back to New Mexico, hugging my Papa tightly before I left. Travis seamlessly assumed the day-to-day responsibilities, providing excellent care for our parents with his attentiveness, consideration, and constant presence. It almost goes without saying, but witnessing the fierce dedication of my brothers to our family, and the way they both stepped up and effortlessly fulfilled their roles, was incredibly impressive and beautiful to me. Not that I ever doubted their capabilities or expected anything less, of course, but seeing them in action was immensely reassuring. And it truly filled me with immense pride to be part of this family. How lucky we are.

Now I’ll leave you with my final update from the CaringBridge site as I wrote it, with only a few edits:

It's with a heavy heart that I share this update. Unfortunately, my father, Doyle Niemann, passed away peacefully on Tuesday afternoon, May 1st, around 1 pm, surrounded by his three children, Cassi, Shea & Travis, and his wife Karen Morrill.

On Monday, Papa had a follow-up appointment with his surgical team. They seemed optimistic about his progress and gave him the green light to try some solid foods. But later that night he was hit with terrible abdominal pain, followed by vomiting. We tried to manage it with medication, but he couldn't keep it down, and he became increasingly uncomfortable and fatigued.

Early Tuesday morning, it became clear that something was seriously wrong. We called an ambulance to get him to the ER quickly. Once there, they suspected a leak at the surgery site, and his condition deteriorated rapidly. His blood pressure dropped, and it was clear he needed immediate intervention.

Recognizing the gravity of the situation, we all determined I should fly back from New Mexico to be with my family. Travis, Shea, and my mom were already by his side. Papa then underwent two procedures in the operating room, but the situation was complicated by conflicting medications and the leak in the surgical site, all which led to blood entering his lungs.

There was a moment when his heart stopped, but the doctors managed to resuscitate him. However, the increasing lack of oxygen and low blood pressure were causing significant damage. He was placed in a medically induced coma to obtain stability of his vitals.
After I arrived in Maryland, around midnight on Tuesday the doctor called us all in to the hospital where we faced a tough decision about a procedure to help with his oxygen intake. It involved flipping him onto his belly – a maneuver they'd learned during the height of the COVID pandemic. But it came with serious risks of immediate cardiac arrest. The ICU doctors and nurses brought in help and at one point there were 20 people in his room. I thought to myself, this is the magnitude of care that my father deserves. Of course, he brings the party. Miraculously, it was a successful flip. The team was amazing and worked together so seamlessly as we watched. And it seemed to offer a glimmer of hope as his oxygen levels began to rise. So, we went home to rest as he would be in that position for many hours.

But unfortunately, it wasn't enough. Despite the efforts of the medical team, his organs began to fail due to prolonged oxygen deprivation. When we arrived Wednesday morning, we knew then that we were facing the unimaginable. Any further intervention came with very significant risks, and we knew that whatever outcome, he would not recover as he would have preferred.

We later learned that by the time he returned to the hospital, this leak and issue were already well underway, potentially even occurring immediately after the surgery ended. The doctors informed us that often, such complications go completely unnoticed until it's too late. I am forever indebted to Travis and my mom for their quick and composed actions in convincing my father to go to the ER that morning. Without their prompt response, Shea and I may not have made it home in time to say goodbye. Despite our best efforts, there was nothing any of us could have done to alter the outcome. We are confident in the care and attention to detail we provided as a family, this was simply a very, very unfortunate circumstance beyond our control.

So, in his final moments, surrounded by loved ones, we poured out our hearts to him. We shared stories of his remarkable life and the profound impact he had on all of us, his kids, his wife, but also the bigger, greater world. Papa wasn't just a big deal to us - we knew he had made a significant impact on the people around him.

Now, trust me when I say that we are preparing for a celebration of his life that will match the magnitude of his spirit. It will be just as Doyle Niemann would have wanted. We will keep you updated, it's going to be a tribute worthy of a legend.

For now, as we navigate this heartbreaking loss, we find solace in the love and support of our community. You’ve already been there for us and shown us so much love. We are so grateful.

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