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In Lieu of Flowers

In honor of Deane’s deep commitment to family, community, and service, donations may be made to either of the organizations she cared about greatly:

The Single Parent Resource Center
228 East 45th Street, 5th Floor
New York, NY 10017
Attn: Rosemarie Dackerman

Online donations:
https://www.paypal.com/donate…
If donating by mail or online, please indicate that the gift is made in memory of Deane Gilliam.
For additional information: www.singleparentusa.org

or

Incarnation Camp (Designated as Incarnation Camp Donation)
Online donations may be made at: https://incarnationcenter.org…
Please note that the gift is made in memory of Deane Gilliam.

Obituary

Deane Allen Gilliam was born on November 17, 1937, in California to Charles Edward Allen and Catherine Murray Allen. Her father worked for Standard Oil of California and later relocated the family to New Jersey. They lived in Colonia, where Deane attended the Vail-Deane School. She went on to attend Wellesley College in Massachusetts.

Following Wellesley, she began a life marked by international moves and intellectual pursuits. She lived in Sydney, Australia, and later in …

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Dear Charlie, Jenn, Edward, Amanda and Families,

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Dear Charlie, Jenn, Edward, Amanda and Families,

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November 17th, 1937
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February 12th, 2026
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