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Obituary

It is with profound sorrow that we announce the passing of Benjamin Alexander Bates, better known in recent years as Benji, who was born on the 19th of November, 2000. Benji departed from this world on the 16th of December, 2025, leaving a deep void in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.

Benji was born in sunny San Diego, CA, though lived most of his life in Boulder, CO, where he graduated …

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Update from April 26, 2026

Deeply heartfelt thanks to all who joined us for Benji's celebration of life last weekend. The same goes for every gift of flowers, donations, and support of every kind, whether you were able to be there or not. Each and every offering was a gift and a solace to us.

To Benji's friends who shared memories, stories, music, and your heart's truth: you all made it infinitely more meaningful - thank you so much.

Deepest thanks as well to Pastor Pedro Silva, who inquired deeply and earnestly into who Benji was in the weeks leading up to the service, and gave us a stunningly beautiful eulogy that honored, uplifted and inspired, and which resonated even with those of us who knew Benji best.

And to Boulder/Denver-area poet, educator, and performer Aimee Herman (aimeeherman.com) who dove selflessly and with great compassion into that same space of connection and care, and gave voice to it in a poem written just for Benji that captured something ineffable and moved all of us in a way words rarely can. We will post that poem here soon.

May the love that surrounded Benji, and that you all shared with us so generously, continue to ripple outward in all of our lives.

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In a school band performance, there was a kid standing next to Benji who was very nervous about his upcoming song intro…
In a school band performance, there was a kid standing next to Benji who was very nervous about his…
In a school band performance, there was a kid standing next to B…

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Benjamin "Benji" Bates