Memories of Adam Howard Ray

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Adam Howard Ray

Santa Barbara, CA

March 5, 1982 - July 16, 2023

Mar 5, 1982 - Jul 16, 2023

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Candice Madsen

Brent Bunker

Marjean Archibald

Julie Ray-Weed

Laura Ray

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Candice Madsen

I think this was at Grandpa Ray’s funeral I think this was at Grandpa Ray’s funeral I think this was at Grandpa Ray’s funeral

Sidney Ray Madsen

Most are lucky to have a cousin or two. These cousins are all the same age. I think there is a total of 86... Read more Most are lucky to have a cousin or two. These cousins are all the same age. I think there is a total of 86 Ray cousins. Most are lucky to have a cousin or two. These cousins... Read more

Candice Madsen

Adam with Hayley, Natalie and Rachel Madsen

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Brent Bunker

Marjean Archibald

Julie Ray-Weed

Laura Ray

Candice Madsen

Adam and Megan with the Madsen cousins

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Brent Bunker

Marjean Archibald

Sidney Ray Madsen

patricia morrissey

Julie Ray-Weed

Laura Ray

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Brent Bunker

Always with a Smile, Laughter, & a Kind Heart ! Always with a Smile, Laughter, & a Kind Heart ! Always with a Smile, Laughter, & a Kind Heart !

Candice Madsen

We didn’t see Adam and the rest of the California cousins nearly enough but we always enjoyed the visits and all the laughter. I loved hanging around the Ray brothers. Few brothers share as tight of a bond. I loved Adam’s sense of humor and his warm smile.

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Marjean Archibald

Laura Ray

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Brent Bunker

Thx Candice for the beautiful Sentiment ....one of my favorite nephews..... Thx Candice for the beautiful Sentiment ....one of my favorite nephews..... Thx Candice for the beautiful Sentiment ....one of ... Read more

Ben Werner

Shared a heart

Landon Ray

Shared a heart

Brent Bunker

Laura Ray

patricia morrissey

Garrett Wong

Adam was one of the few school dads I felt closest with as our daughters we're starting at SB Charter. We enjoyed celebrating Zee's birthday at their home. So sad to hear this news.

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Laura Donner

patricia morrissey

Laura Ray

Laura Donner

Cassie Cabello Russell

Landon Ray

Melissa Mitchell

Brent Bunker

Marjean Archibald

Jami Sanders

Zac Adler

patricia morrissey

Alisa Stegmaier

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Laura Ray

Adam & Megan's wedding day April 26, 2014 at the Santa Barbara Courthouse Sunken Gardens with all their family... Read more Adam & Megan's wedding day April 26, 2014 at the Santa Barbara Courthouse Sunken Gardens with all their family members joining... Read more Adam & Megan's wedding day April 26, 2014 at the Santa... Read more

patricia morrissey

❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Laura Ray

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Sarita Baldocchi

I am so very sorry to hear that Adam has died. I just met and introduced myself to him the day after I subbed in Z’s class near the end of the school year. He had a beautiful, calm and fun energy about him. I am very sad we will not get to see him again.

My deepest condolences to all your family and friends. Sending you love and healing energy as you go through the grieving process. 💙

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Laura Donner

Landon Ray

Megan Ray

Warner Anderson

My heartfelt condolences go out to the Ray family during this difficult time. May the memories you shared with Adam bring you comfort and strength in the days ahead. Sending lots of love.

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Laura Donner

Landon Ray

Rachel Schultheis

Our deepest condolences. Sending you strength, love and light to your family.

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Laura Donner

Landon Ray

Rochelle Sweet(Hie)

So very sad to hear of his passing. Adam was always such a sweet and caring person. We had a lot of fun growing up and I’m glad I was able to see him and chat a couple years ago. I’m so saddened for his wife and children and pray for peace for them as they grieve. 💜

Much love and condolences to his whole family.

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Landon Ray

Laura Donner

Ben Werner

I’m still trying to come to terms with loosing Adam. With what it means. Our kids have been close, and I felt a closeness with Adam. If I can grapple with and allow my grief, perhaps I will understand something better about myself.

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Landon Ray

Laura Donner

Jami Sanders

We truly loved & appreciated Adam, and always loved your family as well. He was such a kind person, unfailingly. I bumped into him at COAC recently and exchanged hellos. Sending our immense love to Laura, Mike, and Adam's dear family. We will help in any way that we can. Thank you for creating this site.

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Landon Ray

Laura Donner

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Jami Sanders

Is there an email address where we can send gift cards for the meal train? Is there an email address where we can send gift cards for the meal train? Is there an email address where we can send gift cards... Read more

Landon Ray

There's a way to do that right at the top of the meal train site. Thank you! There's a way to do that right at the top of the meal train site. Thank you! There's a way to do that right at the top of the meal... Read more

Jami Sanders

Thank you so much, Landon. When I clicked on the gift card link it requested the recipient's email address.... Read more Thank you so much, Landon. When I clicked on the gift card link it requested the recipient's email address. Thank you so much, Landon. When I clicked on the gift... Read more

Landon Ray

Oh lame. Use morsea23@gmail.com Oh lame. Use morsea23@gmail.com Oh lame. Use morsea23@gmail.com

Laura Ray

correction- I think it is meganlrays@gmail.com correction- I think it is meganlrays@gmail.com correction- I think it is meganlrays@gmail.com

Jami Sanders

Thanks to you both for the information <3 Thanks to you both for the information <3 Thanks to you both for the information <3

Cassie Cabello Russell

2014, Santa Barbara, CA, USA

Adam & Megan with Fox (7 months old)

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Landon Ray

Laura Donner

Melissa Mitchell

patricia morrissey

Alisa Stegmaier

Cassie Cabello Russell

2014, Santa Barbara, CA, USA

Adam & Megan visiting my son Fox when he was first born

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Landon Ray

Laura Donner

Melissa Mitchell

Lindsay Holmes

Adam was my first friend when I moved to Santa Barbara for SBCC. He immediately brought me into his orbit to show me the ropes. He introduced me to quesadillas with bean and bacon campbell soup, that we’d eat regularly while goofing off. While we lost touch over the years Adam always carried a place in my heart, which is breaking over this news. Sending the biggest hugs to Megan and the kids, and the Ray family. Adam RIP dear friend.

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Landon Ray

Laura Donner

Melissa Mitchell

Laura Donner

Oh my goodness, such sad news. My heart aches for Megan and the kids. Please let me and Santa Barbara Charter School know what we might do to help. I can publish the MealTrain and obituary to the SBCS community when Megan is ready. Sending lots of love.

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