In memory of

Adam Howard Ray

Santa Barbara, CA

March 5, 1982 - July 16, 2023

Mar 5, 1982 - Jul 16, 2023

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In memory of

Adam Howard Ray

Passed

July 16, 2023
Born

March 5, 1982
Resided

Santa Barbara, CA

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Thank you so much to everyone visiting this page. We will miss Adam tremendously and would love to have you share your favorite memories of him on this website.

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Update from Aug. 14, 2023

Thank you all for being with us on Saturday to celebrate the life of Adam. It brought so much peace and joy to the family seeing how far his community stretched. Sharing the stories, and laughs, and tears brought a certain sense of comfort around this new beginning.

This website will remain active! We welcome, and encourage you to continue to share memories, photos and anything else that reminds you of Adam. His kids, Ravi and Zee will certainly appreciate that one day.

We’re going to post each of the talks that were shared, as well as the playlists that played before and after the celebration, so look out for that.

Again, thank you from the bottom of our hearts for sharing that space with us, and for the love you have for Adam and his family.

With Love,
-The Rays

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