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Benjamin Roger Ross Pardun (Best known as Flower21115, Gary Palidin, Gary21115 and *WaRnEr*), 16, of Houston, Missouri passed away on January 27, 2022 after sustaining multiple fatal gunshot wounds from a murder-suicide set off by his father. Benjamin was born on April 12, 2005 to Gregory Joel Pardun and Deborah Ann German (Viscioni) in Long Beach, California. Benjamin was homeschooled, but was passionate about many different subjects, like learning Spanish. His family was Italian-American, and he took pride in his Italian heritage. He was also an aspiring video editor and comedian, and was overall a very chill and funny guy. He did not have that many friends in real life, however he has made a massive amount of friends on the internet since he first joined YouTube in 2013. He was also a self-confessed aromantic asexual. He enjoyed spending times with his friends and family. Benjamin met many of his friends on a Discord server and enjoyed spending time creating funny internet memes, participating in Tupperbox roleplays and general discussion of various topics with Kylie, Garrett, Samuel, Isaiah, Enzo, Yuvi, Joaquin and tons more friends he made online, some of which also being outside of the USA. He was also involved in many different projects having to do with the friend group he was in and was also the creator of a webseries based on a fictional character that has tons of ancient memes surrounding said character. He was cremated just 4 days after his initial death. Benjamin’s memory will forever be cherished by both the dubbing community and Ky's Hellhole, the Discord server where Benjamin made most of his friends. He is predeceased by parents Gregory Joel Pardun and Deborah Ann German (Viscioni) of Houston, Missouri. He is survived by brother Christopher Josef German of Houston, Missouri and aunt Denise (William) Becker of Oklahoma. Funeral services were handled by Evans Funeral Home, located at 224 South Grand Avenue, in Houston, Missouri.

His surviving brother is having a hard time living through these rough times, and has also set up a GoFundMe to help himself take care of the house following the tragic incident. Please donate to him if you can. https://www.gofundme.com/f/kn…

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